he is very shy he never cry for 7yrs hes has alot of anger in him he has sean poeple but they are put it down to him to being so far behind at school and my 2 outher boys are behind at school and they don't go on like him and does'nt sleep in his own bed
2007-02-14 23:52:03 · 11 answers · asked by jane hall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to get him to a pediatrician & have him diagnosed properly. He may even be autistic so please take him to a doctor.
2007-02-14 23:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try the Advisory Centre For Education at www. ace-ed.org.uk phone 0808 800 5793 (M-F 2-5pm) This line gives advice on all matters relating to state education. This line is in desperate need of funding and provides support for parents having problems with schools, so anybody with a few extra pennies can make a difference for the only organisation on the side of parents..
Young Minds at www.youngminds.org.uk or phone 020 7336 8445.
They can advise you whether your suspicions are correct.
He may be very angry at being behind school. Look at it from his perspective - why should he try if he is this far behind? Also, he is not his brothers! How about looking at ways of bolstering his confidence by encouraging him in the things he can do nad trying out new ones? Discreetly tying in a bit of math and reading to these activities might help e.g work out how much entrance money needed for him to go to the cinema, how much change, books tied in with hobbies.
ADHD children practically bounce of the walls, stop listening if you use long sentences and can't sit for ten minutes together. If he is not doing that, then it may be frustration.
2007-02-15 02:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok firstly are you a single mom?
If yes, try finding an adult male to take him to do guy stuff like fishing or fixing stuff, you might be suffocating him with too much estrogen.
He is at the age where he is trying to find his Identity, he is obviously straight and his anger is sourced in rejecting being feminine.
Make sure that you don't make him a mommy's boy!!!
While you are doing that look at his diet, cut out foods that trigger add and adhd and please don't jump into giving him drugs to control his adhd unless you have unsuccessfully tried to control it with variations of diet and mentoring.
2007-02-15 00:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 12:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a little ad in the local paper 4 help 4 him. THERE probably is teachers out there that need a few dollars.
2007-02-14 23:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your son being bullied at school perhaps? I'd arrange an appointment to speak with his teacher, and enquire about his behaviour at school. If your children are falling behind at school you need to solve this, as a parent it is up to you to encourage your children to do homework and work hard at school.
2007-02-14 23:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie's_Secret_Society 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna get flamed for this, but, I'm gonna say it anyway.
Dr. Phil would slap the sh*t outta you. It's parents who don't see that do the most damage.
Get into family therapy immediately. He's not ADHD.
2007-02-14 23:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray and try to show them all that you love them...even if you are in a hurry or else; stop and try to be more kind...I know it isn't easy! If you ask God's help you'll receive the best help in the Universe. Where do you live? Write me if you want.
2007-02-14 23:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
check within your area for state assistance for the slow and impaired start making cals there is help
2007-02-14 23:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm why doesnt that surprise me.................
2007-02-14 23:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋