2007-02-18 19:21:56 · 20 answers · asked by moparts_24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you wife doesn't want to be with you what would be the point of getting her back. I'M sure there are ways to get her back by hook or by crook but if she isn't happy with you you should not want her back. She will be gone again when the next best thing comes along. If you don't have kids together cut her out of your life, if you do find a way to be civil with her for their sake but by all means you should not want someone that doesn't want you. In the end it will only be heartache again.
I hope you can learn to accept this.
Good luck and God bless.
p.s. find someone that you want and that wants you. She is out there somewhere.
2007-02-18 19:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jayson Kane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, start going out and doing all the things she hated you doing when she was still with you. Then, go to college, get a degree and meet areally beautiful woman who is interested in you and parade yourselves around where you know your ex will be and just act like you are the happiest man in the world. Give your new lady all the love your ex denied you- in front of your ex and project how happy you are and that her leaving you was the best possible thing she could've done. Then disappear for a while and you and your new lady keep a low profile. I guarentee you it won't be long until you start seeing your ex driving by late at night, calling you and then hanging up because she really wants to talk to you but doesn't have the courage(or conscience) to do so. Her seeing you truly happy and quickly over her will drive her nuts. Works every time.
2007-02-18 22:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by 4everamusedw/humanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you would want to - she's been with another man! For whatever reason she left - she's gone. If it's because you were a bad lover or emotionally stunted - those are things you can work on - if you didn't communicate, try opening up and talking to her! If you love her and forgive her for being with another man, then why wouldn't you do anything and everything you can think of to get her back?? Personally, leaving me for another man is something I wouldn't get over or try to reconsile. That bit should have happened before she left!
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!
2007-02-18 19:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The questions is.. Why would you want your wife back if she left you for another man?
2007-02-18 19:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by jweggie1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one...Many will say that it is a big mistake to get back with her since she left with another man. All I can tell you is that if she is willing to go to marriage counseling then maybe you should work your problems out there. No one just leaves to leave, there is something that needs to be fixed. If you are willing to take her back in and she is willing to be a faithful wife...then why not. YOU NEED TO FIX WHATEVER STARTED THE MESS, if not she'll be out again in no time.
2007-02-18 19:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she left you for another man. Work on yourself and the things she didn't like about you. Not for her but for you. Make yourself a better person, maybe she will come back around and maybe not. Either way you win. You will be better prepared for your next relationship, or, you will get back together with your wife.
2007-02-18 19:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has left you for another man WHY would you want her back ?
2007-02-18 20:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is to find out what went wrong in your marriage. Could you be the reason? People's need changes with time. Did you took her for granted? Until you've identified the fault, ask her for a one-on-one chat and see if there could be a reconciliation. A Marriage Counsellor would be a good option as mediator.
2007-02-18 19:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not try and get back with her...you should not make yourself an option to her while she is everything to you...moreover if you do get her back and she goes off again with someone else then the pain will be a lot worse You would be better off without her believe me i am speaking from experience.
2007-02-18 19:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by ericktravel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋