Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

i made dinner for someone last night and it went great.any ideas on a second date. im looking for something fun, so we can get to now each other. any ideas?????????????????

2007-02-18 00:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by surfer_ade_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

Me n my friend were chatting n…. he said I gave his phone num to some girls….. n that he was angry bout that…. He said BYE 4ever….. (O_o) I did everything I could 2 make him understand that it wasn’t me coz I haven’t given any numbers away! Ever! But he couldn’t believe me… I got angry and wasn’t answering him…. He got mad… but anyway I didn’t pay attention on him…. He was calling me… but I wasn’t answering…. I don’t want 2 lose him, but maybe he made up that story just 2 say bye. Or not>? Anyway, should I forgive him? Or what should I do? By the way, today it’s a celebration in my country and it’s like the day that ppl forgive each other

heeeeeeelp

2007-02-18 00:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by rrru888 2 in Friends

just curious really.....

2007-02-18 00:35:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we r friends from class lkg now i m in Vlll . when i proposed she do not respond me should i again propose her

2007-02-18 00:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by deept s 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law has hope that her son will change his controlling and abusive ways. I do not.

Why as a mother does she have hope and I do not? How can I convince her other than my actions that I do not want to get back together with her son?

I met him for a few days and he already has asked me cancel the car insurance on my car when its my car and not his concern. I am driving his car while I am here and he has asked me to pay for the registration. He also wanted me to change my cell phone plan to a family plan and I said No.

His behaviors are the same and she does not understand. I don't think that I will ever be able to explain it to her.

2007-02-18 00:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

a private investigator would be perfect,none around here,and people are too scared of the chick being cheated on to tell her the truth,and her boyfriend madethe comment that he couldnt find a chick to mess around with him because their allscaredof his girlfriend, yea,right!We allknow some chicks thrive on messing with other womens men.PLEASE HELPSTOP THE AGONY,all of you trustworthy fellow women and men.The signs r there, but shes blind to love,please help her see the truth.

2007-02-18 00:34:44 · 4 answers · asked by blueeyesrmine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What makes women cheat?I have been with my husband for 3 years he was born in Ghana west africa and he is very nice too me and our beautiful kids!!but when i go out alone men always temp me because they are always asking me for my number~~so what makes some women cheat??

2007-02-18 00:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Americangirl22 2 in Singles & Dating

i've liked him since the first time i saw him, but he is very shy and i probably scared him so i stopped flirting with him and we just became friends. We have been friends for over 2 years now but i still have strong feelings for him and can't seem to shake it off... i don't even want to date other guys. We hang out and chat. About 18 months ago we had a drunken night and i confessed to him that i had had a crush on him for some time. He said he had noticed and hinted that he had similar feelings for me. We had a drunken kiss but i got scared and made up some excuse and went home. We have staid friendly since them. Now i think its too late for us and we are doomed to just stay friends. How can i tell him i'm actually in love with him without getting drunk first?

2007-02-18 00:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by ice_ice_baby 1 in Singles & Dating

I divorced my ex-husband about 5 years ago. I live in another state. My ex-husband has now moved to another state. I left my job and came to take my daughter back with me.

However, my mother-in-law keeps telling me that I can not raise my child alone and that I will never be able find someone else if I want to get resettled.

I have decided to go back to the other state at the end of the month. I can not tell my mother-in-law because of her pushy nature.

I try to avoid her as much as possible. I don't like talking to her because she keeps pushing me to get back together with her son and I am not interested.

How should I deal with her though when she makes the remarks that are mean and hurtful?

2007-02-18 00:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

What is the consensus everyone? 50/50? 60/40? 20/80? I see so many people who think God will take care of it 'all' and are surprised when nothing happens so tell me how much do you believe is up to you and how much is up to your type of 'God' ? Just curious

2007-02-18 00:31:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I suffer with depression and i have a long term boyfriend but i have no interst in sex anymore, just seems like a chore....and believe me, I love my sex!!!!! But theres nothing there. Could this have anything to do with taking anti depressants or am i just weird?? Any tips on how to get bk on track??? HELP!!!

2007-02-18 00:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by Fayeboo 2 in Singles & Dating

and who would make you run screaming for the hills?

2007-02-18 00:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father made me and my mothers life HELL. He was a drunk bully who used to beat my mom and cheat on her. He left us for another woman while mom was dying in hospital. That was 8 years ago and I havnt seen him since. Now hes found me and wants a relationship with me. I hate him and cant stop thinking about the bad things he did to my mom.

2007-02-18 00:29:23 · 15 answers · asked by *Tara* 2 in Family

im looking to chat to people, hopefully find a date

2007-02-18 00:28:13 · 3 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 00:27:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-18 00:27:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You guys know how boys act when they like us stare,flirt,and etc. I was going to my class. He wasn't looking at me he just stopped in the corner in the middle in the hallway to talk to this boy at his locker. The started walking back kinda fast he almost back up into me. I think he did that was on purpose so he can get my attention.

2007-02-18 00:26:33 · 7 answers · asked by Incredible 3 in Singles & Dating

This is what one of my friends jokingly said to me, i did not want to ask them what they meant, so what do you think they meant?

2007-02-18 00:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was up late and tend to get a bit sentiment esp. lack of sleep. I'll always love her in part though I know it's over and almost felt like sending. It's nice to get an opinion unfortunately some guys can't read and so it goes with sadly the childish and flippant foolhardy nature of too much of this board. Thanks for the opinions though I have not sent just saved as a draft



Hey I been ok, trust you are,
I really wanted to and held myself back
from sending you flowers, I loved too.

No need to rehash the fine
then rocky start,
twists and turns
of a weathered heart
Too late

nary just tonight
where sentiments lie
where sleep forsaken
stirs time of
half-heartily-healed
thoughts in mind
Of fate

This I wrote two fortnights hence
penned and never sent...This I stop myself from the start
fail as I may in the loving partMay I always hold the good part
know not if you were free
how I would hold you in my heart
still
away your belated valentine

2007-02-18 00:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 00:24:32 · 19 answers · asked by Wendy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 127 reasons why I hate women and every day, I find more reasons to hate them. This week, I want to focus why women can't respect a nice quality man and give me a chance.

I'm a 32 year old virgin. I've never been on a date and I've never kissed a girl. The reason is because I have been rejected by every girl I approached and women refuse to hit on me. I have tried every tactic to lure women and failed. I have every issue of Maxim and FHM and used every piece of advice and still fail. I go out hunting for women every day and still come home empty handed.

I'd be the perfect boyfriend for any girl. I'd do ALL the following:
-Make breakfast in bed every morning
-Give foot rubs every night
-Take her out on shopping sprees and buy her whatever she wants

All this rejection has made me so angry at women that now, I hate them. I wish women never existed. Women cause all the pain in life. Please explain to me why I should tolerate women and not hate them?

2007-02-18 00:24:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...from a dead-beat dad? and how do you explain to children that 'Dad' has no interest in their lives?

2007-02-18 00:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by prairiegurrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

seeing signs of red flags. I tried to talk to her about them but I was made to feel my conserns were not important. at this time I desided to put the breaks on our relationship. I wanted some time to think this out. Durring this time we did see eachother from time to time and I desided to not persue a b.f g.f. relationship but to keep it on the friends path. This was hard for me to do because I do love her and I dont like to hurt her. I am a communicator and she is a fighter. I a upset that she is bashing me now when she talks to her friends. I know deep in my heart that I treated her (and her kids) with love and respect and shouldnt feel bad but I do.

2007-02-18 00:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by tuesdeliv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 00:21:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to hurt my family. But the truth I've been hidding from them for 10 years is becoming great burden for me. Now the only person who hurts is me, but when I tell them there will be much more pain. Should I tell them or should I continous with actting?

2007-02-18 00:20:00 · 16 answers · asked by athe_ena 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a girl in school who i SERIOUSLY like. i even gave her some jewelery.the big problem is that my folks wont let me have a girlfriend before 17. also shes leaving in 3 months. what do i do???????????

2007-02-18 00:19:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend that wants to take whitening pills to have a lighter skin color.And i told her not to take the pills because,when she starts to have a lighter skin people who know her will laugh and make fun of her.She got mad at me and said that she will take the pills anyway.I´m afraid people will laugh at her and hurt her feelings.

2007-02-18 00:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by vrrms 1 in Friends

the kind that makes you just stop in your tracks ...when everything is suddenly apparent, crystal clear.....sometimes good sometimes not so good




i had one this morning...it reminded how easily we all fool ourselves when we want to...

2007-02-18 00:19:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 00:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by mafattih 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she does not want cops involved because he is a gangster and she is afraid that she will put those that she loves in danger. She is moved out of the boyfriends house but he seems to have her under a power. she says that it was some her fault because she was mad at him when she found out he was using drugs. that is when he hit her. she then left. she is embarrassed and dont want to get alot of people involved but her dad who is my friend had me help move her. what can we do to help this poor broken girl. my heart just broke when she said that she feels worthless now. she is a very beautiful girl inside and out but he had her convinced that she was not. never he gave her compliments, nothing. he did not allow her to buy things for the house only him. pictures/wall things he would buy what he wanted and hang. same with the food. he was so controlling that he took this poor girl and put her under his thumb for everything. what can we all do as her friends to help her get thru this.

2007-02-18 00:16:02 · 14 answers · asked by bufalo1501 2 in Friends