Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

Come on, in the spirit of chinese new year...please? Everyone hugs on New Year!!!! E-mails are fine. :-P

2007-02-18 03:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 3 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........

We MET ON FRIDAY at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

I apologised for hurting her i.e. wanting no contact - she snaped bck saying YOU NEVER HURT ME! GOOD/BAD RESPONSE??

I asked her if she'll join us on our group roadtrips - she said YES! - A POSITIVE SIGN OF FRIENDSHIP RESTARTING???

As she left I said that hopefully/possibly see you in a few months -she replied I'll see you at the roadtrip - we said bye and she gave me a tight hug - ANOTHER POSITIVE SIGN???

She needed a hug from my mate as it was too much for her to take in!

IS THE FRIENDSHIP REALLY LOST???Why she hurt???

2007-02-18 03:25:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go through the trouble of buying my girlfriend the nicest and hottest stuffed animal puppy in school, buy her a card, and write her a handwritten love letter. She told me how jealous all the girls were and that she absolutely loved the letter. She thanked me.

Then she tells me "I'm not good with gifts, what should I get you?" I said I didn't know ...........

So I see her this weekend lol and I get absolutely nothing.

Should I be upset?

Should I say anything?

2007-02-18 03:25:41 · 5 answers · asked by Johnny_Jurassic 1 in Singles & Dating

Why were you?

2007-02-18 03:24:38 · 19 answers · asked by Mimi 3 in Singles & Dating

Should i send her to the doctor to get her checked out as usually i am only a few feet away from her so why does she need to shout???

2007-02-18 03:24:32 · 23 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, it was before you two were a couple (even if he already knew you as a friend)

2007-02-18 03:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Celtic Wanderer 2 in Singles & Dating

I meet a lot of guys who tell me what a great person I am and that I just have to look and I will find someone. The odd thing is that these are guys that I have met online and that I have alot in common with. I am not a teenager, I'm 41 and been hearing this for many years. I know I'm not that great of a person but why if I am that great, why don't these guys want me rather than suggesting how I should meet other guys?

2007-02-18 03:23:25 · 2 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

and she tries to parent me and yells are me when i do something wrong. Once i missed the bus and she yelled at me and i started crying. so i told my dad i was sick of her and he got mad. I don't know what to do! should i tell somebody how i feel? I don't want to hurt my dads feelings. please help! thanks!!

2007-02-18 03:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

All white boys think about is sex right? Well ever since i was in 6th grade Mexican boys Black boys any boys but white boys have been all over me like asking me out and stuff...i have nothing against them because most of the time they have most respect for women then white boys do...Do boys of a different race besides white really value having a good women more than white boys? I am white and have dated alot of black and hispanic boys but people think its weird since im white but i dont.........i dont know why i am more attracted to them.......HELP!

2007-02-18 03:21:14 · 17 answers · asked by soccer chick 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i am not stupid i am not in love with this guy.maybe sumday i could be, but 4 now itz just fun, and we do that we have SO much fun together! we act like little kids when we get together sometimes, the main problem is if we wanna go out on dates or have any real fun, we have 2 leave our small town and go to a one of the bigger cities near us because of the gossip (this being my idea, he said to screw them but gossip getz back 2 my momma real easy!), only a few people know we are together (2 keep momma from finding out).the reason she can't find out and most ppl look down on our realationship is cuz he is so much older than me i am 16 and he is 32, when we first me i thought he was around 25 or 26, and he thought i was about 18 or 19 (i do look older than i am) but by the time we had even bothered to ask each other ages we had been talkin on the phone (mainly via textin) and had gotten really intrested in each other. is there really any thing wrong with us, and should i ever tell mom?

2007-02-18 03:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I did what someone told me and face to face asked out a girl (im really shy) she said yes but she says that she wants me to be less skinny. Is this my problem? Im 6'6 175, and i do everything i can to bulk up. btw im in 9th grade.

2007-02-18 03:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by Chad Parries 1 in Singles & Dating

don't want the cops involved.

2007-02-18 03:20:22 · 11 answers · asked by tally_fan 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 03:19:46 · 15 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ya my girlfriend sometimes tells me she feels bad after we are done makeing out.like hurt stomach hurts and stuff.im wondering why is that? thanks for the help

2007-02-18 03:19:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the coxswain of the mens crew (rowing) team at my university. I'm the only girl on the all guy team i'm small and i yell row and other things along those lines. Thing is they need me, not many other girls would sacrafice 3 hours of everyday to them.

At a party last night some of my rowers were there, all of them are like my brothers except for one who always gives me a hard time (mostly jokingly) and I just ignore it.

Last Night the one who is rude told me he hated me and when I went to pick something up threw an empty beer can at my head.I was very intoxicated myself and freaked out pushing his head very hard and screaming "JUST STAY AWAY FROM ME."

I considered quitting last night because of him. We have a team work out at are schools gym this morning, he left a long apoligie on my phone last night I believe after I told another rower what happened crying my eyes out.

What do I say 2 him this morning? How do I enforce respect?

2007-02-18 03:18:46 · 2 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Friends

2007-02-18 03:18:26 · 20 answers · asked by Harry 1 in Family

2007-02-18 03:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by bunty k 1 in Singles & Dating

..i`ve left my webcam on all night,my mother was the last one to use it when she was talking to her friend from the bridge club.problem is i was engaged in a self gratifying act last night, twice!! this woman has came on to me a few times in the past.could she have been watching???

2007-02-18 03:16:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His friend also likes me so..i dont know

2007-02-18 03:16:29 · 8 answers · asked by babyluv4u_14 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he hates the old me and now he's ignoring me because he thinks the mean girl is going to come back.

2007-02-18 03:16:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ii know this guy and he is on the wrong path and he was my first true love. He is so mean to me yet ii still love him! ii just want him to leave me alone. even if he dies what should ii do??

2007-02-18 03:15:03 · 13 answers · asked by love_makes_me_sick 1 in Singles & Dating

steps??

2007-02-18 03:14:14 · 2 answers · asked by beti 1 in Friends

I broke up with my ex last summer cause she was practically cheating on me. Since then we have still remained friends, then at thanksgiving she tried to come see me, but couldnt get time off. After that we got into a couple of huge fights on the phone, so stupid me i bought her two tiffany's necklaces to try to get her back. Big mistake. Now she has the upperhand and doesn't want me as bad as she used to. She doesn't need me, but she can't go 3days max without calling me? I have read professional advice and they say if you want to get back with your ex not to call her so I haven't called her at all, and she does all the calling every few days. The thing is she calls me when she is lonely, or in a bad mood so I called her on it and she said she was sorry. I have a hunch she is with another guy now because some dude answered the phone last month and hung on me. She is giving me mixed signals calling alot, then not calling. I didnt call on Valentines day, and today is her bday.

2007-02-18 03:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bring my man Darren to my house alot after school since we go to the same High School. But the thing is, my momma doesnt have a 9 to 5 so she is usually there. We cant do much because she's downstairs and if we had sex she'd hear sounds or the bed moving. Penetration or oral is a no when mom is home, so the only physical contact me and Darren have had when she was there was some hugs, some kisses and a hand job. Thats why we do all the wild stuff at his house. But she doesnt even know Im gay, she thinks Darren is one of my friends. I believe that she will eventually pick up on us and kinda feel like I should just come out and tell her Im gay. What should I do?

2007-02-18 03:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by longhair_derrick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf is for the City and I'm a country boy. Almost everything she love to do I don't. Her music is different from mine. So is her movies. She wants to travel the world while I like to stay put. But, we can't get enough of eachother. I guess I'm trying to ask if your partner in your relationship carries the same interests or are they different?

2007-02-18 03:13:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

met this girl last week, and we communicate through email. This is what she reply to my email:

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Wanna meeteup this weekened?

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Hi Hi.

Hey it's my birthday weekend so I am at home
(Columbus, OH)

I'll take a raincheck on the meetup.

Have a nice weekend!

2007-02-18 03:13:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a close lesbian friend who loves me. She knows I'm straight. The thing I've been wondering recently is if actually deep down I might have the same feelings that I don't relize yet. It doesn't make sense. I find some woman attractive, but NEVER anything like, "Mmm, baby give me some of that!". In fact, I feel weird seeing a woman I don't knows crouch. The reason I ask is I drempt the other night, the same night I was hanging with her and another friend, that we had sex. Not making love, but we said what the hell and had sex. I woke up quite surprised. It's been a while since I had a sex dream, though I've been single for 7 months. I just wonder if deep down I feel the same or am starting to. Maybe it was because I've been fattisizing about making out with Brendon Urie from P!ATD. What do you think?

2007-02-18 03:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so here is the deal. My bf and I have been together for over a year, but won't discuss marriage without an argument starting. He tells me "yes i want to marry you..someday when it's right" I am not asking to set a date, just trying to ask him what we need to do in order to start going towards that. I know he is not cheating or anything like that, but he gets very angry when i bring up the subject of getting married. He tells me that "knowing he wants to marry me someday should be enough..." but all it does is tease me in a way. He is a few years older than I am, well quite a bit older and i'm still young, he has made several comments about how someone in his family was with their husband 12 years before they got married...which dosent offer much hope for me. He seems too "content" being stuck in neutral....he wont even consider moving in together...(not for any moral reason) he's not opposed to living together but he just wont do it.. please help! what should i do?......

2007-02-18 03:10:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

makes me sick,don't know if i want her and my dad to hook up.

2007-02-18 03:10:42 · 15 answers · asked by tally_fan 3 in Singles & Dating

My older sister never has orgasm since she started having sex. Been bout a year now. She's depressed and I can't help coz I know nothing bout this stuff

2007-02-18 03:10:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating