I bring my man Darren to my house alot after school since we go to the same High School. But the thing is, my momma doesnt have a 9 to 5 so she is usually there. We cant do much because she's downstairs and if we had sex she'd hear sounds or the bed moving. Penetration or oral is a no when mom is home, so the only physical contact me and Darren have had when she was there was some hugs, some kisses and a hand job. Thats why we do all the wild stuff at his house. But she doesnt even know Im gay, she thinks Darren is one of my friends. I believe that she will eventually pick up on us and kinda feel like I should just come out and tell her Im gay. What should I do?
2007-02-18 03:14:08 · 6 answers · asked by longhair_derrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's hard. Ot took my gay cousin awhile to open up to it. If they love you they won't freak out and will still love you.
2007-02-18 03:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your mom~ she may already know. If you have a good relationship with her than I would strongly suggest you telling her. I think that the good relationship would help with you not having to keep your sexuality a secret. If you do not have a good relationship with her I suggest just sitting down one day and telling her. Once you tell her the better you will feel. I hope all goes well.
2007-02-18 03:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by SoySrtaBonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not question if your mom loves you of course she does....Tell her you are gay it will be ok...it may surprise you. Moms have unconditional love....I always say if my son comes to me one day and tells me he is gay...that is his choice...now on the other hand the men in your life may freak out so that as well will have to be talked about with your mother...on how to handle it....Lets just admitt society sucks and they think they are the"NORM"....now what is "NORM"? She will support you!!
2007-02-18 03:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by esmccann2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're mother really loves you then she'll accept the fact that you're gay. that is all there is to say.being gay isn't a disease so ahe should just accept that you're happy.
2007-02-18 03:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or girl cause im confused. sum girls say they are gay but how can a girl be gay. they can only be a lesbo right?
2007-02-18 08:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ! shes your mom. she has the right to know !
2007-02-18 03:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋