Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

2007-02-18 03:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a big crush on this boy . Hes really nice , but ever so rich .
I have always been worried about what people may think about my house . it is small compared with everyone elses from school and his . I'm scared he might dump me if he see's my house but inside i no he wouldnt do that because hes nice . Why do i feel this way ?

2007-02-18 03:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by ell.rocks 1 in Singles & Dating

Met a wonderful girl in Boston where I live, in the beginning we were just friends and didn't expect more, but as soon as we started seeing a lot of each other we quickly developed into lovers. We were both in another relationship at the time, and she broke up with her boyfriend (to my surprise),but I didn't leave my girlfriend for her and while I suspect that it broke her heart a little, she said it was for the best and we just reverted to being friends again. Now, a year later, and i've realized i still care a lot for her and am trying to work out if we still have a chance.She still sends strong signals, but when it comes up explicitly,laughs & says that she only sees me as a friend and couldn't imagine us having ever been a couple (this after she hounded me for weeks to break up with my gf & be with her).Is she just afraid of being rejected again or have i really killed this one?Do girls ever say they just want to be friends, for fear of losing control, when they really want more?

2007-02-18 03:54:55 · 7 answers · asked by jack white 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you show a girl you really like her when she has a bf ???

2007-02-18 03:54:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am on the verge of divorce and i am wondering if i dont ask for child support can i deny my husband visitation right?We live in NJ and i make enought to not need his money.I take care of all my 1.5 year old daughters child care needs so i think i have a good chance of full custody.

2007-02-18 03:53:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt/uncle and cousins live in another state. They used to live here and my cousin and I are very close, so when they moved away we visited them a lot. However, I haven't visited down there for 5 years even though the rest of my family has. WHY? Everytime I visit them, my uncle picks on me. He's strict and all but he messes with me the most and I'm company: waking me up to go work, having me do chores all day and go wherever he wants, heckling me with questions, humiliating me in front of my cousins and everyone. I might ask, 'it's clean in here. did u clean it?" he'll say, 'no, the wind did!" / "what's taking so long? You can't even that up?' / "You can't even do this or that" / He's my only uncle who had the audacity to spank me on my hand with a hard-a ss slaps as a child. He makes most of my stay miserable, picks on me, and bosses me around. My cousin told me he's only that bad when I'm visiting. My other cousins have noticed his bullying treatment of me and they find it crazy

2007-02-18 03:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by Crancrab1 1 in Friends

I mean at my school all they got to do is tell them they like them and they get the guy Just like dat and when me and my friends like a guy we get a hard time.

2007-02-18 03:52:47 · 11 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend wanted to talk to me. She said it was very important and after she blew me off this morning I told her just to text me. This is what she sent me…..

"i don't love you. How can i love someone who has made me cry for the past two nights? Who has me in tears right now!! Who ignores me for two days straight? Who screams at me in the car till I'm in tears because they think I'm lying when I wasn't! How can i love you when i am never on your mind? While you are trying to meet other girls behind my back even after being with me for TWO YEARS. How can i love you when all I do is cry? When you don't care one single bit that i cry! I said i needed to talk to you and all you could do was tell me to text you. So I'm writing this HERE IT IS!! I wanted a valentines day with you...considering we couldn't do anything on Wednesday. I went out of my way to buy you gifts I knew you would like and you lie to me tell me you got me stuff when in reality YOU FORGOT! How can you forget about me?? Am I not that important to you? I don’t want to cry anymore over you. I don’t want to cry PERIOD! I just want to be HAPPY!! I got you one more thing for Valentines Day that I did not give you. I wanted to wait till our actual Valentines Day date which was supposed to be tomorrow. But I realize today that Monday is never going to come! So here is my note to you! Yes I’m crying! Yes I’m VERY VERY UPSET right now and yes I just want you to hold me in your arms and tell me everything is going to be ok. But today is the LAST DAY I will EVER cry over you!! Things will be ok with or without you in my life!

I think I REALLY REALLY HURT HER!!
-did I hurt her?? I had no intention of hurting her!! I don’t know what to do now!!

2007-02-18 03:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband found my passionate loveletter to my classmate. I never intended any relation with this guy but I felt secure and needed his emotional support. That letter was never sent . My husband harassed me and I felt lonely as he or my parents never shared my depression but my classmate gave the moral support to me and I felt near to him. I am always disciplined and sincere but for this which I feel very bad about. There was never any relation of the kind except for exchange of some views. But I did write some nonsense in the letter and I don't know why I did it. What is better for us now?

2007-02-18 03:52:39 · 18 answers · asked by venus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 03:52:39 · 11 answers · asked by ☺ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my bf for 2 and a half years . I meet him while he was here in London studying his PHD which is finished in 2 months time. He is going to move away for work and says that he wants me and my daughter to go with him but i have a feeling that he wants to go alone. Am i just paranoid?

2007-02-18 03:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by stacey f 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well, i like a boy but i don't know if he likes me...i can't understand his behaviour...sometimes he looks at me and he tells me ''hello how are you'' and some times he behaves like he doesn't me...what happened?

2007-02-18 03:51:38 · 4 answers · asked by coolgirldina 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl gets a boyfriend in a time period of a week maximun right after she ends her last relationship (she dumping the guy or her getting dumped), this girls has done that and has gotten 3 boyfriends and all hv come in little time after each other. What is the deal with this girl? Is she a sl0t??

2007-02-18 03:51:29 · 27 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont get that if you are a virgin then why is it uncool, doesnt anyone have any self-respect? i dont get it, im not a hoe and i shud b respected 4 that not put down.

2007-02-18 03:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

ive seen so many divorces happen. is it because people have an unrealistic expectation of marriage? imo you should have emotions for the person first: love, trust, respect etc.
where people go wrong is that they marry the person thinking just because they said marriage vows in front of a preacher, the emotions will magically appear.

2007-02-18 03:50:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is a girl that I like very much and I know she has some feelings for me.But the problem is that she has a boyfriend and she prefers to spend most of her time with him. How can I attract her to myself more? Furthermore she used to be my friend for a period of time,then we broke up and after 4 months she came back to me but with a boyfriend!!!!!! Can you help me with this situation?

2007-02-18 03:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by â? ARSA|_A/\/â?¦ 2 in Singles & Dating

i live in a block with three houses, the guy in the middle keeps pigeons.they don`t bother me in the slightest but the lady at the other end of the block hates them, claiming that they keep her awake at night.the dilema is that i`m having some financial troubles and this lady has offered me a considerable amount of money to let a cat loose in this guys pigeon coup,i REALLY need the money. what should i do?????????

2007-02-18 03:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for a couple of months now and he just told me that he is still not over his ex....what bothers me is that they broke up last year and she has a boyfriend now. and i dont understand how could he be dating me and still have feelings for her. but right now i suggested and he suggested a break from eachother...were still together but im giving him his space...cause obviously he has things to work out but i just dont know what to do.

2007-02-18 03:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy for almost 2 yrs & the reason our relationship ended was because after 1yr & a half I found myself attracted 2 other guys. Everytime I tried to end it with my ex he found a way of talking me out of it and we'd be back to where we started, with me liking my ex but also finding other guys attractive. At the beginning of last year I decided to finally end it with him, but due to the fact we both hung out in the same group we ended up still acting like a couple, sleeping round each others houses (yet not offically under the title 'in a relationship')
Then I met a guy in the middle of last year who I liked alot and we actually ended up 'doing stuff'. My ex would always ask me about it but I would always deny it (thinking that it would hurt him if he actually found out).
Now finally, my ex is beginning to like another girl and I can't help but feel jealous. I keep thinking I should have stayed with him and fought off my attraction to other people, what should I do?

2007-02-18 03:49:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you have mono can you still kiss your bf/gf? and how long does mono last? is it a one time sickness?
also can you kiss you gf/bf after the period of time you had mono is over and you feel better? cause im really scarred that i would not be able to kiss my gf if i get it.ill be soo damn sad

2007-02-18 03:48:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was bad and looked at one of his fones which he left at my house and saw the messages only because he is so shifty when his fone rings. He has a neighbour, female that I have never met in over a year. But when he's not with me he's always down the pub with her. Am I being paranoid or is there something in it. He's come out with the sorry I do have female friends but why text and answer the fone when I go out the room!!! so he must have something to hide. He even had great delight in telling me that his Xmas party he was offered sex from a female work mate, so he must of been flirting for that to happen. And that he said to one of the girls he works with that he will have to have 3 in a bed with her and her sister before he leaves the company!!!!
Everyone who has met him has said there is something not quite right.Does he go in the recycle bin ????

2007-02-18 03:48:05 · 23 answers · asked by charlotte 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the whole situation.. because in my question before i left some things out. He got sent to rehab for drugs.. and i hate drugs so that hurt me.. i waited for him faithfully for 5 months and my friends all hate him so they kept talking me into brekaing up with him.. so i thought i wanted to move on.. so i went to a party and got drunk.. i dont remember much.. but i guess i had sex with this kid. My boyfriend found out before i told him about it. He said he wanted to take a break and expereicne new people. I know he is hte one for me.. and i know cheating is ****** up.. but he kept messing up and having to stay logner in rehab.. and that hurt me bad. So i actualyl wanted to move on.. then i realized i loved him and it was too late because he found out before i could make it right and tell him. Why does he want to take a break? Why does he want us both to date other people? He asked me to go on a date with him to this concert in like a month.. and i just dont know what to do?

2007-02-18 03:47:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother in law had a legal separation from my father in law. They had a will for right to survivorship which states the survivor had rights to the estate. My father in law moved in with his girlfriend of 8 years et took his guns, rings, etc. My father in law died very unexpectedly. My husband and children and his brother and children have nothing of their fathers although they had a good relationship with their father and grandfather, my husband called the girlfriend and she stated there was nothing of their fathers they or their mother could have and is selling everything, does she have a legal right to do this if there was never another will? I hate that my husband or children will never have anything belonging to their father, things that were my husbands grandfather and great-grandfather, Will we have to go through court and maybe still get nothing ? Thank you for any advice.

2007-02-18 03:46:58 · 5 answers · asked by sal326 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Over the past month I noticed she didn't repsond to any of my messages sent to her on this online dating site. After realizing she might not be interested in me, I left a message with her on valentines day to say happy valentines and that i didn't get a message from her, wishing that i had a chance to chat with her, and that this would be the last message. I made this decision because i dont want to make her feel that i'm pestering her, there's no point, especially when this person isn't interested.
Two days after valentines day she replied me with her first message ever saying the below: "aww...that's so sweet. will you be my valentine? this year on valentine's day i just stayed at home and watched tv...hopefully in the near future i'll be watching tv with someone beside me :)

What does this message mean to you?

Thanks a bunch.

2007-02-18 03:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by rocher765 1 in Singles & Dating

plzz help mee any good advice me and my girlfreind broke up and i am sooo soo down i feel life is black really i cant enjoy or smile i dont know what to do i am just down what can i do plzz ??

2007-02-18 03:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by persianoooo 1 in Singles & Dating

my god mother is too comfortable. she often comes to my home and take showers.many times i just had urge to jump in that shower but not sure if i should.she keeps doors open and act like i m not there at all
i m 17 she is 33
what do you think

2007-02-18 03:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

M making a resume ,I Know tab is used to fix text in straight line ,but i m not able to find the Tab option in the Ribbon/menu.Please direct me how to go about it.

2007-02-18 03:43:20 · 1 answers · asked by pooja a 2 in Friends

and the family of the boy are coming to town because"they want to see the baby" I don't want them hanging around my house.. they have traveled 3000 miles to come see the baby I want to set time limits to their visits, the baby and my daughter not to mention me and my wife are very tired! after 3 days in the hospital, they only decided to show up once the baby was born ( I think its novelty to them). My wife and I don't want our daughter to get married to this boy and we certainly don't like his family, and even my daughter doesnt want to be with this boy either! is it prudent to set 3 hour time limit to their visits ?theyre only in town for 4 days

2007-02-18 03:43:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been fighting now for two days. Last night, I was drunk and very billigerent, while he was sleeping on the couch for over two hours. I woke him up(which he was not thrilled about) and we found ourselves in a fight. While for an unknown reason to me I was screaming, crying, and hitting. I kept blaming everything on depression(bad idea, i'm aware) and he ended up bringing me home. I called him this morning and he was asleep and said he will call me back. What is thebest advice, to break up or not? Also, should I have him come over to talk about it, or go over there or not?

2007-02-18 03:42:47 · 18 answers · asked by McKenzie J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 03:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships