My girlfriend wanted to talk to me. She said it was very important and after she blew me off this morning I told her just to text me. This is what she sent me…..
"i don't love you. How can i love someone who has made me cry for the past two nights? Who has me in tears right now!! Who ignores me for two days straight? Who screams at me in the car till I'm in tears because they think I'm lying when I wasn't! How can i love you when i am never on your mind? While you are trying to meet other girls behind my back even after being with me for TWO YEARS. How can i love you when all I do is cry? When you don't care one single bit that i cry! I said i needed to talk to you and all you could do was tell me to text you. So I'm writing this HERE IT IS!! I wanted a valentines day with you...considering we couldn't do anything on Wednesday. I went out of my way to buy you gifts I knew you would like and you lie to me tell me you got me stuff when in reality YOU FORGOT! How can you forget about me?? Am I not that important to you? I don’t want to cry anymore over you. I don’t want to cry PERIOD! I just want to be HAPPY!! I got you one more thing for Valentines Day that I did not give you. I wanted to wait till our actual Valentines Day date which was supposed to be tomorrow. But I realize today that Monday is never going to come! So here is my note to you! Yes I’m crying! Yes I’m VERY VERY UPSET right now and yes I just want you to hold me in your arms and tell me everything is going to be ok. But today is the LAST DAY I will EVER cry over you!! Things will be ok with or without you in my life!
I think I REALLY REALLY HURT HER!!
-did I hurt her?? I had no intention of hurting her!! I don’t know what to do now!!
2007-02-18 03:52:42 · 5 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after she said that i said
"I'm sorry i don't know what came over me when I yelled at you I'm a bad boyfriend."
she then text me back replying "that's all you can say huh?"
i said "i have to accept that you don't want me anymore. It's your decision"
she then reply back "No it's not that i don't want you it's that you do not want me and you've made it very clear."
-is it over?
did i really screw this one up??
edit: she called me and I asked her if she would like to talk after work...she said "i don't care" "You decide" i made her decide and she said "fine"....
-is this over for good?-
2007-02-18 03:53:52 · update #1
Sounds like she feels as if you have taken her for granted and that she needs more attention from you. There are times that a lack of attention can lead to feelings of insecurity. Reverse the roles and think how you would feel if she did not give you the attention
you required. If you care about her, show her. Your actions will speak volumes. Have a person to person conversation and LET HER TALK, you listen. After she's done,you talk. Sometimes when people are 'emotional' they tend to try to talk at the same time and they can't hear each other.Anyway, she sounds like she still wants to work things out.If you want to be with her, tell her.If not, tell her that too so she can move on.It's as simple as that .
2007-02-18 04:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years in a relationship is plenty of time to learn about someone and it sounds like your ex-girlfriend (yes, I said "ex") learned a great deal about you. With reading her words, yes, I would confirm that she is very hurt, wishes this over and wants to move on. Respect those wishes because it doesn't sound like you ever truly respected her.
A relationship will have its fair share of good and bad times, but, by the sounds of things, there were far more bad moments for her ... personally, I commend her for lasting as long as she did with you.
Never take a partner for granted ... this will only end in disaster.
2007-02-18 12:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a drama queen. Don't respond at all, and she will keep contacting you with more drama. A person that doesn't want to see you anymore, doesn't spend so much time telling you that, and then talk to on the phone to say it again. If you really want to keep her around, know that your relationship with always be this way. You will spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong. Send her some flowers, candy, or something. Text her with a date time and make sure you show up, begging for forgiveness. But if I were you I would take advantage of this opportunity to get out now. Call her bluff and say okay I don't want to see you anymore either, and then stick to it.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 12:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by monica_d_23608 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is over. Let her go and learn from your mistakes. Take this opportunity to work things out with yourself and do whatever it takes to find inner peace. Then, in time, you will find another relationship and do better next time.
2007-02-18 12:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hurt her bad. the best thing you can do is say sorry and leave her alone.
2007-02-18 12:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋