plzz help mee any good advice me and my girlfreind broke up and i am sooo soo down i feel life is black really i cant enjoy or smile i dont know what to do i am just down what can i do plzz ??
2007-02-18 03:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by persianoooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out and about. DO things with your friends. Get a job or something. Pick up a hobby.
2007-02-18 03:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by sportman16977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't be human if you didn't hurt.... But for sure you need to get out.. Try hanging out with friends that go different places then you used to go to. My sister was like that and she would come over all the time.. Well one day i invested in some board games Ghettopoly, scrabble, the new scene it games.. and with in time she was alot better. Now she goes back out and has good times. There is light at the end of the tunnel.. Cheer up, maybe you weren't meant to be together.. There is a big ocean out there with many many different fish.. :-)
2007-02-18 11:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by dottlander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can choose to dig your self a hole and die in misery or get a life, love your self, we all have had our heart broken big time some time and have survived, so, take it easy life goes on and you'll get over her. First of all you have to get rid of everything that reminds you of her. start doing things that you enjoyed doing but couldn't do while you were with her. Improve your self and look good (that does a lot for your spirit).
If you feel good, and look good, she'll be thinking again or at least regretting letting you go, or at least if she sees you she'll be surprised of how good you look. If you are miserable and just roll in your pain, you'll look bad, you'll feel down, and she will not respect you. Take care!
2007-02-18 11:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by maccaroni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best cure is distraction. Go out with some friends or help someone else do something physical. Sitting home just thinking about how horrible it all is just makes it worse.
2007-02-18 11:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I was like you a month ago ,maybe is cause you like her but if she broked up don`t ask her back cause she prolly don`t like you no more my advice find somebody else but if the broke up started with you call her and tell her that how meaning less the world is with out her ..good luck
2007-02-18 11:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by sinner so what ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your current situation, but the only thing that will help is time. Plus spending time with friends or family. Just try and keep yourself busy, don't sit around all by yourself, that's the worst thing you can do. Sorry..........
2007-02-18 11:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just sit around and mope. go out with some friends. Hang out, go to a movie, get your mind of of her. You will get over her faster if you remember how great your friends are!
2007-02-18 11:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chat Noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling happens to everyone............so in time it will go away if you don't feed it.......Just because you broke up doesn't mean you cant hook up with someone else.............You will smile again........
2007-02-18 11:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋