Is it pay back time on my uncle who makes life miserable when I visit my cousins, but now he's visiting here?

Question

My aunt/uncle and cousins live in another state. They used to live here and my cousin and I are very close, so when they moved away we visited them a lot. However, I haven't visited down there for 5 years even though the rest of my family has. WHY? Everytime I visit them, my uncle picks on me. He's strict and all but he messes with me the most and I'm company: waking me up to go work, having me do chores all day and go wherever he wants, heckling me with questions, humiliating me in front of my cousins and everyone. I might ask, 'it's clean in here. did u clean it?" he'll say, 'no, the wind did!" / "what's taking so long? You can't even that up?' / "You can't even do this or that" / He's my only uncle who had the audacity to spank me on my hand with a hard-a ss slaps as a child. He makes most of my stay miserable, picks on me, and bosses me around. My cousin told me he's only that bad when I'm visiting. My other cousins have noticed his bullying treatment of me and they find it crazy

There's no way he'd stop being a jerk with me down there, because for one I'm stuck at his house and there's not much I can do. Should it be payback time on this B when he visits down here?

Answer 1

Hell ya payback..

Answer 2

No, life is too short for you to be a jerk like him.

Be polite, but not warm towards him
Enjoy your cousins if they come as well.
If you distance yourself from your uncle , he may notice and comment, then you can tell him why he isn't your favorite.

But don't be a jerk like him

Answer 3

what the hell is "his B"? anyways...no you can't do that....i suppose he is older than you....if you pull a prank on him he could start saying to everybody that you are disrespectful and a bad guy....just don't go and don't talk to him...avoid him.....don't start picking fights taht you know you can't win.