Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?

2007-02-18 23:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

made you sooo mad that you want to kick him repeatedly? Mine does this on a regular basis and I think he either enjoys it or doesn't care. I feel like I am raising another child. I have tried to leave him many times, but he just won't go. With 4 kids I don't want to be the one to move. I am frustrated and don't know what to do. I am sick of asking him for consideration. I am sick of asking for his help. I am sick of getting so mad at him. He knows what buttons to push though. I actually wanted to kick him this morning. I like to think that I have myself under control. I never lose it with any of my kids, and they like to try my patience. I don't think I should have to work so hard with a spouse. (Technically, he is just a boyfriend, we have been together for 7.5 years though.) I am sick of the head games. I would like this to be straight and simple. I would like him to do his jobs so that I can do mine. How the hell do I make that happen?? Yes, I am already thinking about leaving....

2007-02-18 23:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 23:27:51 · 14 answers · asked by GEORGE N 1 in Singles & Dating

IS HE OR IS HE NOT I NEED HELP!

2007-02-18 23:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This isn't really a relationship question but you all seem so clever in here:-)

I've written a story for a children's picture book but what should I do? Should I approach publishers directly or try to find an agent first?

All advice welcome.

2007-02-18 23:24:44 · 7 answers · asked by star 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,
I'm 16 and i've been dating my bf for almost 3 months now and we are like the perferct mate. I know i love him and we've both told each other that we love each other. But when ever i start thinking about the future, like him coming to my cottage in the summer, i get scared. I start thinking "what if we don't last that long, what if we break up" What if. . . Wat if. . .Wat if! Is it cause i'm scared of wat could be happening? He my first bf ever so i don't know. All i know is i am in love with him but why do i have these doubts of the future? Please Help Me!!!!

2007-02-18 23:24:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know, dream, and see things before it happens. i wish god never gave me this ablility but i have to deal with it! it runs in my family! i want to know term of what it is called. seeing or knowing whats goin to happen before it does. please help. ive had this sence i was a young child and dont know what to call it!

2007-02-18 23:23:44 · 19 answers · asked by goodgotdam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:23:40 · 14 answers · asked by bipin j 1 in Singles & Dating

How to tell hubby that I've spent $600 from our joint account on myself on things that I like when it's supposed to be our savings account? We agreed not to touch it, but I secretly broke our agreement. Gosh I'm very guilty.

2007-02-18 23:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or variations but he is having second thourghts and think people wont come because of this

2007-02-18 23:19:21 · 22 answers · asked by bandan 2 in Weddings

i think that i m gud looking and have a nice personality. i asked my teachers and friends and they said that i m indeed smart. what shud i do then. will a girl ever like me ?

2007-02-18 23:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a question that I had asked of my by a friend. I'm not exactly that well clued up on affairs of the heart so, the first couple of things I've answered back are, "If you talk regularly to your friend, would you feel lonely & empty if you didn't speak for a period, say a day or more" and "How would you feel if you had an argument, or the person wasn't going to be in your life anymore, would you feel it was a shame to lose a friendship, or would you feel as though the bottom had fell out of your world". Although, as I said, I'm not too good on emotional stuff lol. Any other pointers that I could feed back would be really appreciated :-)

Thanks in advance

CI

2007-02-18 23:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by HairyMingerUK 2 in Singles & Dating

I got pregnant after having a one night stand many years ago my son is now 9 I met up with his dad again 2 years ago and he told me if his side of the family ever found out he would stop maintanance payments,after a long time on the net I have found where his parents live what would b the best way to get intouch and tell them they have a grand son?

2007-02-18 23:18:24 · 30 answers · asked by marie29 1 in Family

My sister in law helped me with my baby shower. She was the one who did the games. My mom threw the shower for me. my mom Paid for pretty much everything. My sister in law started telling her what to do. She was very bossy. She started complaining to some of my family about how she put out 150 dollars for my shower which is not true. She made a blanket for the baby and just bought a few things for the tray game. She is now telling her whole family that she threw the baby shower put out alot of money and that I didnt even appreciate it. I told her thank you at the shower and sent out a card. Then for christmas she made a big deal about how much she paid for the outfit she bought for my daughter. She wants to help me throw my daughter her first birthday party. I don't need or want her help. How should I handle this how situation.

2007-02-18 23:17:04 · 18 answers · asked by megansmom06 2 in Family

I like a girl and I know she don't have a boy friend , should I keep trying to make her love me or should I let her go .
I know that girls love the guy who don't stop trying , Is that true ???

2007-02-18 23:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her name is katey and i really like her, not just because she is hot, but she is fun to hang out with, funny, isnt too much of a girly girl, but she can be when she wants or needs to, shes really into all sports, and she lives like 2 houses away from me so i can see her all the time, i dont know what to do, and i just cant go off and do something because im really really shy!!!!HELP ME!!!!

2007-02-18 23:15:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, she threw a fit about it, and I don't understand why. It is not like my wedding dress won't be long enough to cover the stilettos. Do you think she is just overreacting?

2007-02-18 23:13:44 · 12 answers · asked by Jay S 5 in Weddings

and eventually fall asleep together in a sort of romantic embrace, what's that feel like?

2007-02-18 23:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:13:31 · 17 answers · asked by tisya 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the best way to get someone to notice you and want to engage in conversation without being to overt? I'm bashful when it comes to guys and never seem to get noticed. It seems like I'm the only one who isn't dating or married.

2007-02-18 23:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by optimistic_in_ankeny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:11:42 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 23:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by looby 6 in Weddings

which of the above does your life revolve around. Too often in the hustle and bustle of everyday life that most people lose sight of the real thing. I myself try to stay grounded knowing how easy it is to get caught up in the snare of the ''rat race''. What would you say is your current state of affairs please share with me.

2007-02-18 23:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-18 23:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

2007-02-18 23:10:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know I would!

2007-02-18 23:09:48 · 29 answers · asked by Transi Betty 1 in Singles & Dating

I’m a very tender hearted person and have a very hard time saying no to people and being mean to those who are mean to me. I’m always worrying about hurting peoples feelings that I never stop to think about my own. Is there anyway I can toughen up this heart, all I need to do is learn how to say no, yet I’m too afraid it will hurt the persons feelings, it’s really starting to get me down! Also does this sound selfish?

2007-02-18 23:09:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so this girl liked me in 7th and 8th grade. i liked her but we were just friends, and at that time i was too shy to do anything about it, i also kinda liked some1 else at the time. now in high school we never talk anymore and i always catch her looking at me. whenever she walks by me she looks uncomfortable. shes a little shy when i talk to her. sometimes i catch her walking with another person smiling and then looking at me. also it seems like whenever i walk by her, her voice gets louder. she really confuses me. i dont know what to do. she talks to other guys and stuff but i dont see her getting with them, she is close to them to. i really like her and i think im in love. i want to be there for her. how can i tell if she likes me? how can i get her to like me? oh and at dances i see her looking at me, also when im dancing with another girl.

2007-02-18 23:08:11 · 5 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this very kind and sweet guy he seemed very into me. We spent the night together and had a great time we both had drunk alot but we didnt sleep together. He was very eager to see me again so we planned to go out the next day. I was getting ready to go, he was on his way, he needed to stop and help our friend out on the way we didnt have an official time but like an hour and a half later i get a msg saying hes not feeling up to it and can we do something the next day. Im a fairly good judge of character he appeared to be genuine. He didnt care about us not sleeping together. He was drunk the night before though so maybe hereally wasnt feeling like it...? Or he isnt interested???? Help me out im confused. When i last saw him he was eager!!??

2007-02-18 23:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to shag my girlfriend but i don't know how to aproch her or what to say is there anyone who can give me a plan to do so.

2007-02-18 23:04:09 · 6 answers · asked by in your face 1 in Singles & Dating