Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

When we are at work he has never said hi or goodbye. Only to these two guys that work with me. Sometimes I don't notice that he has walked pass through me, so he just does not say anything. The weird thing is when Im doing my job he might say something out loud but not directly to me. For some reason, I just freeze that nothing comes out of my mouth. So after he has said something, I think I should have said something but it's to late.

2007-02-18 22:05:58 · 11 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

I go back to work next month and have managed to work my hours out so that me, my partner and my parents share in the childcare. My parents adore my daughter and she is the mopst spoilt baby in the world but i am just a little concerned that if we have any disagreements about anything they do with my baby it will ruin our relationship, we are very close? what do others think, should i be happy with the arrangements or be looking for a nursery?

2007-02-18 22:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by dollface 2 in Family

Is it possible for a girl that has had a hard life growing up to feel like they are being treated so well by their boyfriend that they dont deserve his love and feel like they can't love him in return? If so how do you fix it?

2007-02-18 22:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't have a lot of money, what can I cook my bf that will not only taste good but look good also?

2007-02-18 22:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 22:01:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 3 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........

We MET ON FRIDAY at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

I apologised for hurting her i.e. wanting no contact - she snaped bck saying YOU NEVER HURT ME! GOOD/BAD RESPONSE??

I asked her if she'll join us on our group roadtrips - she said YES! - A POSITIVE SIGN OF FRIENDSHIP RESTARTING???

As she left I said that hopefully/possibly see you in a few months -she replied I'll see you at the roadtrip - we said bye and she gave me a tight hug - ANOTHER POSITIVE SIGN???

She needed a hug from my mate as it was too much for her to take in!

IS THE FRIENDSHIP REALLY LOST???Why she hurt???

2007-02-18 21:57:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend just asked me out and we have been friends for 4-5 years and he said he's liked me for 3 years, i told him i didn't want to have a boyfriend at the moment because my last boyfriend turned out to be a druggie, he is now not talking to me and i don't know what to do??

2007-02-18 21:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Lois 1 in Singles & Dating

ive heard some things from other people about this guy i really fancy. i know i shouldnt listen to gossips but it was really annoying me!!

anyways, i said to this guy "i dont think you have been honest with me and i think you have been lying to me".

he said "i dont see how ive been lying to you. i havent told you anything anyway".

so, does that mean he has been lying/dishonest?i know what hes saying is technically true, but isnt he trying to get out of it by a technicality???

what would you think???

2007-02-18 21:56:35 · 15 answers · asked by jo w 1 in Singles & Dating

I met her last friday night at a bar, she's beautiful and hot, I can't believe that she came up to talk to me, it never happened to me before, she's got the nicest body that I've seen lately, but I don't know what to do because she has 2 kids and her husband died about 7 months ago, I like her a lot but I have some weird feeling about this, what can I do??? she said she likes me a lot, I'm not a shy person or nothing, is just that this time I'm confused, maybe because she's older than me, help please???

2007-02-18 21:56:30 · 2 answers · asked by flacodf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Also, my Mexican girlfriend wrote to say that she is pregnant. I know my wife has had an affair while I was in Guam and my girlfriend is in reality married. (But had not had sex with him since we started seeing each other) I can not decide wheather to go home to the states, stay in Korea or maybe just immigrate to Palau. On Palau the women all go topless so maybe that would take my mind off my troubles. Advice please.

2007-02-18 21:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex left me, started seeing someone else, then ended it with her as said wanted me back, i told him he'd have to grovel first, he then went distant again, ive now started seeing someone else and my ex once again has said he wants me back and said he went distant again cos he got scared cos he felt once again i'd put rules on him, i 'like' my new guy but i still love my ex, went round his house last night to tell him id give it another go and found a valentines card from the girl he was seeing after me, saying 'to my boyfriend on valentines' he swears blind she is desperate and sent it to him, i want to believe him so much but i cant imagion a girl sending a card to a guy who dumped her to be single 'to my boyfriend' cards.
any suggestions

2007-02-18 21:54:35 · 20 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

i loved this girl verymuch. we both were in the relationship for 6 months.we had sex couple of times.because of our parents pressure we cudnt marry each other.Her marriage was done with another guy. after her marriage she was out of touch.after 6 months of her marriage suddenly one day she called me and said that she still loves me. iam calling her from then but she is not lifting her phone.i almost forgotten her but she came into my life once again. from past 2 weeks iam thinking about her and hurting myself badly. i dont understand why she is not lifting the phone.iam in deep trouble plz help me.

2007-02-18 21:53:24 · 17 answers · asked by kool 1 in Friends

Now we both realize that in early twentioes ,we really were sex-crazy morons.
We 've kept in touch in last 3 years after we broke.
We're married only for 6 months.
Any cautions , I do nopt want to land in the same situation again.

2007-02-18 21:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by ramesh c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i loved this girl verymuch. we both were in the relationship for 6 months.we had sex couple of times.because of our parents pressure we cudnt marry each other.Her marriage was done with another guy. after her marriage she was out of touch.after 6 months of her marriage suddenly one day she called me and said that she still loves me. iam calling her from then but she is not lifting her phone.i almost forgotten her but she came into my life once again. from past 2 weeks iam thinking about her and hurting myself badly. i dont understand why she is not lifting the phone.iam in deep trouble plz help me.

2007-02-18 21:52:01 · 23 answers · asked by kool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 21:49:19 · 20 answers · asked by nala 1 in Singles & Dating

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 3 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........

We MET ON FRIDAY at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.

I apologised for hurting her i.e. wanting no contact - she snaped bck saying YOU NEVER HURT ME! GOOD/BAD RESPONSE??

I asked her if she'll join us on our group roadtrips - she said YES! - A POSITIVE SIGN OF FRIENDSHIP RESTARTING???

As she left I said that hopefully/possibly see you in a few months -she replied I'll see you at the roadtrip - we said bye and she gave me a tight hug - ANOTHER POSITIVE SIGN???

She needed a hug from my mate as it was too much for her to take in!

IS THE FRIENDSHIP REALLY LOST???Why she hurt???

2007-02-18 21:49:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 21:47:52 · 23 answers · asked by strawberrystruddle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this dude like 3 months ago im feeling him and he is feeling me.He told me he was 24 i usually dont date dudes younger then me. Then after a couple mounths he showed me his ID and he is 20 even though he claims to be 21. I really like him hell i love him we love each other but i feel like sooner or later i maynot be enough for him. And mid life crisis is a *****. By the way im 28 what should i do?

2007-02-18 21:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by Akasha 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 21:45:24 · 14 answers · asked by ihwenus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here is a couple of basics,
1.I'm telling the truth
2. I'm 21 year old female
3. I'm attracted to smart man

So I’m seeing a surgeon, a doctor, a professor, and a man who has his PHD in political science. The problem is none of them know that I’m seeing the other, and they all think I’m serious. I think I need to eliminate three, but how do i decide? They are all soo sweet and funny and charming. I'm not a player!! I know they will find out sooner or later so I have to dump three fast. Help me what should I look for???

2007-02-18 21:41:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think love never dies.people love each other whole their life,and if love wouldn't be,we woldn't be too.

2007-02-18 21:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by sopo m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-18 21:40:36 · 8 answers · asked by flee simmin 1 in Friends

first dance is coming up in a month. never been before cuz im shy. mates are all urging to me. soooo nervous. help me out yer.
1. is it like everyones dancing the whole time or is it more like you hang out wit mates then every 20 minutes or so go ask someone to dance.
2. wat type of dancing happens?? i relly need help on this one.
3. when ur dancing do u like find details bout them. like name, school, phone number etc.

2007-02-18 21:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really can control my self when I think about sex, I'm obcessed with sex, I want to have it at all times, I like all types of girls and I do all kind of things, what can I do about it??

2007-02-18 21:38:29 · 19 answers · asked by flacodf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few months ago ma phone started ringing...till now it has not stopped. I use to call girls and begg them 4 a text reply. But recently I dont even call or text, they call me and text askin how I am. Most of them got ma number from their friends, I hevent met, yet they claim to like me and want to meet me officially. Is this FAME, or just a prank?

2007-02-18 21:38:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 21:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by ConRob 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing her for about 3 weeks, and met her from an ad I put up under casual encounters in the personals on craigslist.. I know if she hadn't started seeing me, it would be someone else. But in choosing to be a part of this adulterous relationship, I know I'm doing something wrong. It's tough though, cause we have the most amazing sex I've ever had, and talk about our lives like best friends. Am I hurting myself subconsciously, by trying to ignore the fact I'm doing something morally wrong? And if her marriage basically seems to be at it's end, why should I beat myself up and feel guilty at all?

2007-02-18 21:37:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that women scientists are not seen as scientists, they are seen as secretaries, technicians, imminent mothers, and potential lovers, and are constantly judged on their attractiveness, and at best can expect some courtly politeness which no doubt emphasises their inequality...it would seem that women are assumed to be competent scientists not until they gain the acceptance automatically offered by men....so can a woman not do the same job as a man?....if not better sometimes?....are we not worth giving the chance?

2007-02-18 21:36:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i m going crazy.. she keeps texting and calling him.. i cant handle it and we always end up fighting.. he loves me..and i do too.. but...

2007-02-18 21:36:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do women wait for the man to say I Love You first....?

Why is this...?

2007-02-18 21:35:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating