Also, my Mexican girlfriend wrote to say that she is pregnant. I know my wife has had an affair while I was in Guam and my girlfriend is in reality married. (But had not had sex with him since we started seeing each other) I can not decide wheather to go home to the states, stay in Korea or maybe just immigrate to Palau. On Palau the women all go topless so maybe that would take my mind off my troubles. Advice please.
2007-02-18 21:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes this is a serious question....need serious answers.....My visa for Korea is about to expire.
2007-02-18 22:02:37 · update #1
I forgot to mention that this Korean Lady has a four year old daughter. She is not married but did live with a Russian Doctor for a little while. I am not sure that the child is Russian/Korean but there is definately some caucasian features present.
2007-02-18 22:17:06 · update #2
Sonia, it is true. I have a life. I just have too many women but can not get rid of any of them. I have reconsidered and am thinking about immigrating to Saudi Arabia where you can have all the wives you want.
2007-02-18 22:25:26 · update #3
Each problem must be resolved starting with your wife,she had an affair just as you have,find out why and if there is a chance for the 2 of you she may have been lonely because you were not there and if you are there then you both will be okay.Leave the married korean lady alone.The mexican woman I'm sure has boyfriends so be sure the baby is yours and if it is stand up and take responsibility but stay with your wife.Best thing to do is keep that little thing in your britches or take care of those urges yourself.Good Luck!
2007-02-18 22:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by harleyman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your head on straight. You have a wife whom is pregnant, assuming its your child. Go home and get that situation settled. There is no way this Korean woman is going to leave her reality marriage. Check the customs. Whether or not she's had sex is not the problem. You are both married. If you don't love your wife in the states then get a divorce if necessary but don't continue with what you are doing.
2007-02-18 22:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not thinking with the head on your shoulders. That lower groin head is doing your thinking for you and will either get you beheaded in Saudi Arabia or you'll be rotting in a korean jail or if you return to the mexican girlfriend the mexican gangs might torture and leave you to the buzzards in Palau.
Dude you need to stop this foolishness. HIV/AIDS you are a walking time bomb!
2007-02-18 23:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is to go home to the states first...be face to face with your wife and discuss the marriage. Even though she may have cheated you owe it to your marriage to settle this first. If you choose to end your marriage then...take some time to think without the comfort of a woman. The distance may help clear some of the lust-filled thoughts. As forth the pregnant ex- I think you should realize this is no reason to be jumpy either. Kids should not be used as a reason for to people to be together. As for the korean woman...maybe your vulnerable and she fills a temporary void but things can change and then what your bouncing from one commitment to another...neither real.
2007-02-18 22:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see no amount of suggested solutions will be able to help you. This is so because once you solve one, you will probably have another handful added on.
To me, you do not seen to be sincere in any one that you had a relation with. With insincerity, you cannot solve problems. Try that in Saudi Arabia, and you need only a one way ticket.
2007-02-18 23:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by JP E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a serious question you have entirely too much time on your hands. If it is a serious question you need to grow up and go home to your wife!!!!
2007-02-18 22:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by valducci53 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait !!! Ive seen this before its " The AH movie " you paint a good situation, but i think if ANY of this is true lock yourself up and bandage your hands, so you think clearly ...
get a life alone !!
2007-02-18 22:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by sonia b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should defect to North Korea.
2007-02-18 22:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a variety, get a divorce!
2007-02-18 23:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont have kids
2007-02-18 22:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋