Now we both realize that in early twentioes ,we really were sex-crazy morons.
We 've kept in touch in last 3 years after we broke.
We're married only for 6 months.
Any cautions , I do nopt want to land in the same situation again.
2007-02-18 21:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by ramesh c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I did marry my husband twice.First time was at 18. Young,he was in the military,and I was pregnant. We were married for almost 3 years. Went out on our own and realized we really were meant for each other. We dated and took our time and remarried in 1992 and are still happily married.
2007-02-18 23:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try dating for real. Give it about a year before you decide to get back into the marriage. If you find that you truly loved this person and want to be with them then it will work itself out. If you have any reservations about what happened while you were married then get them out on the table now. There can be no questions or hinderances if you go back.
2007-02-19 06:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you truly love this person and your sure the 2 of you are willing to fight the fight of making it work this time then why not. Just take some more time and make rational decisions. Ask what your real problems were. My wife and I split for the simple reason that we were both just to stubborn. Could have been fixed with reasoning. Make sure what issues led to your previous break up are no longer an issue.
2007-02-19 08:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the rush? y dont u just stay as a couple for the next few years until ur super duper sure u aint making the smae mistake. After all narrow it right down all marriage really is, is a piece of signed paper. Good luck with ur decision!
2007-02-19 05:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rodeo Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any doubts can be cleared by openly speaking out about it with each other. Let him also come out with his probable fears. Divorces often occur on mis-understandings on the part of both. Learning to say 'NO' when you really want to say 'NO' is an art- which comes by practice not by birth. practice that art first and don't say Yes when you really wanted to say NO. Ask him also to learn this lesson. That would solve almost 99% of possible repetition of misunderstandings in future. BEST OF LUCK.
2007-02-19 06:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ps N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than 5-billion people on the planet, and you hook up with somebody who you already know--in advance--it didn't work out with. There's no question that one of you cannot be trusted in a committed relationship, there's no question that one of you isn't as interested in the other parnter and the relationship, but it seems like neither one of you are terribly comfortable living by yourself.
So is the idea that somebody (you or him) is only with you because they view that as better than living by themself (and would probably leave if they had a better alternative but feels this is good enough and maybe all there is) appealing to you? Really?
I'd rather be by myself.
2007-02-19 06:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have known people who have remarried after they divorced and I can say not one of their marriages lasted the second time around. Ultimately your going to do whatever you want anyways on this so just do it I guess and see what happens.
2007-02-19 06:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some premarital counseling and try dating for a while. Maybe the two of you have grown up enough to give the marriage the dedication it deserves.
2007-02-19 06:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't make the same mistake twice. Keep moving forward don't live in the past. History has a way of repeating itself.
2007-02-19 05:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Redhead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont marry this time. Live with him as long as you both are happy with each other.
2007-02-19 06:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋