ive heard some things from other people about this guy i really fancy. i know i shouldnt listen to gossips but it was really annoying me!!
anyways, i said to this guy "i dont think you have been honest with me and i think you have been lying to me".
he said "i dont see how ive been lying to you. i havent told you anything anyway".
so, does that mean he has been lying/dishonest?i know what hes saying is technically true, but isnt he trying to get out of it by a technicality???
what would you think???
2007-02-18 21:56:35 · 15 answers · asked by jo w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same advice ! Go out get laid and get rid of that looser
2007-02-18 21:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is don't pay attention to gossip (like you said). It's often exaggerated and blown out of proportion. I don't think he's said anything to you to warrant you thinking that he has lied. I wouldn't say he's dishonest based on what you have written. Give him a break, and give him the benefit of the doubt. Gossipers have nothing else to do but to sometimes slam someone's character. That's not cool.
2007-02-19 06:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore the gossip. Although he might just be a bit shy and cautious and doesn't want to say anything. I wouldn't say he has been lying, he is probably confused with whats been going around just as much as you are!
2007-02-19 06:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has not been totally honest with you and yes this is a technicality. However he is saying that he has not lied to you about anything important.
If this happened to me then I probably would not mind if the things he lied about were unimportant.
2007-02-19 06:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that when I speculate or read into things like this too deeply, I end up being wrong or just stressed out from worrying about it...just try to be patient and his true character will come out in due time.
2007-02-19 06:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by whoswhomwho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he didnt tell you anything then he wasnt lying to you! If you have any doubts about him then dont carry on any further with him, but honestly - if someone came up to you and said similar to you how would you react?
2007-02-19 06:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful so u dnt get hurt,tread wit caution while u date him if u r really in for him,all of the people can not b wrong altogether.it may turn out good wt him.the word is 'careful'
2007-02-19 07:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being truthful. Don't listen to gossip. Be as big as he is by ignoring it.
2007-02-19 06:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by celianne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's the only thing he said to you to clarify things, then he truely doesn't care about what you feel. and i would just leave him alone..find someone else to fancy...that actually will take the time to explain things that you can understand...
2007-02-19 06:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by laydofluv25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to malice gossips & trust him.
2007-02-19 06:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like the song says:
"when my friends told me you had someone new,
i did'ent believe a single word was true.
i showed them all tat i had faith in you.
and now I'm glad that i kept on saying.
oh no not my baby.
no, no, no not my sweet baby."
2007-02-19 06:02:38 · answer #11 · answered by drunkredneck45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋