i loved this girl verymuch. we both were in the relationship for 6 months.we had sex couple of times.because of our parents pressure we cudnt marry each other.Her marriage was done with another guy. after her marriage she was out of touch.after 6 months of her marriage suddenly one day she called me and said that she still loves me. iam calling her from then but she is not lifting her phone.i almost forgotten her but she came into my life once again. from past 2 weeks iam thinking about her and hurting myself badly. i dont understand why she is not lifting the phone.iam in deep trouble plz help me.
2007-02-18 21:53:24 · 17 answers · asked by kool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is married stay away from this situation. You are asking for trouble, and if she wants to run around behind her husbands back, she will do it to you also. You ought to know better then to fool around with a married woman. Do not let lust get the best of you. It is not right to do this, and you should be old enough to know this.
2007-02-18 21:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she was your girlfriend before she got married. Now she is some Else's wife. You should forget about her and move on in life. Waiting for her to come back means she has to divorce her husband and get married to you. What guarantee is there that she will not leave / divorce you after 6 months. If she really loved you she would have convinced her parents that she wants to get married to you. The simplest excuse is pressure from the parents that is whole lot of bullshit. She has no courage and is not honest. If she had been honest with her parents and told her parents her relationship with you, before she had sex with you, you both would have been married. Everything happens for the best, so forget about her and enjoy life some other beautiful girl is waiting for you.
2007-02-18 22:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See as u said she is also in the same pain, she is also unable to live with her husband. She is still thinking of you, because u had crossed the limit before marriage only, a girl who ever it is can love only a single person only by force even she has married she cannot live with him. Her whole and soul will be revolving around you only. For solvation u kindly marry any other girl, there is no other go. Because unless u marry she does not stop calling, this will become never ending story. She calls u and u go, later one fine day when u call if her husband lifts up the phone then u both will be in trouble. It is very easy to say but u have to digest and marry a girl and try to live happily.
2007-02-18 22:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is too youthful for each guy or woman to get married. Your concepts does no longer supply up maturing till 24 or 25- meaning you regardless of the reality that do no longer comprehend who you're and what you like till on the brink of then. You undergo in concepts being 14? weren't you quite damn particular of your self and your judgements as quickly as you have been 14, which you look decrease lower back and observe as being stupid and defective? comparable factor. human beings exchange plenty. sturdy fulfillment to you regardless of the undeniable fact that- it incredibly is a harsh international. Congrats on popping out.
2016-11-23 18:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your hurt. Think of this . . . If she is behaving this way while she is married to another, and a newlywed at that . . . whose to say she would not behave the same way if she was married to you. She sounds fickle and does not know her own self and tries to find out who she through the love of another. Is that a woman you want to share your life with? Love is not enough. . . think of a relationship years and decades into the future. What is the character of that person who you would be sharing your life with.?
2007-02-18 21:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Can understand but for god sake keep yrself away from her n dont take any initiative to contact her' Let her live her life n dont make her difficult. Controll yr emotion better for both of u. Must understand she is married now.
2007-02-18 22:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buddy i think she got busy n her married life.sometimes happen when a newly married girl fights with the husband ,she recalls her memory of past,and fiddle what to do.But trust me then soon she forgets when her husband smiles n says,'I Love U Honey.
So,stop calling her .y dont u take a turn n look back ?might b some one waiting 4 u.!!
2007-02-18 22:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be aware that you should be out of this relationship... it is a human nature that we ourself invite problems for us..although we can differenciate b/w right or wrong still we seek other's advise.. so my friend my advise is to you pls come out of this illusion asap and even if she calls u don't answer..be strong there must be someone waiting for you who deserves you most.. but i know you will follow your heart...it is upto you whether to be strong or to invite trouble
2007-02-18 22:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Damage is already done,she has made her dailly mind job,so she can sleep thinking that also someone else is thinking about her.Thats the kind she is...,she is not worth man,get grounded.
My best wishes.
2007-02-18 22:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by whatever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL HER ANYMORE. HER HUSBAND COULD HAVE FOUND OUT ABOUT THE CALL AND U CLD BE PUTTING HER IN A VERY DIFFICULT SITUATION - OR - SHE WAS JUST PLAYING WITH YOUR FEELINGS. EITHER WAY, STAY OUT OF IT. IF U ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER, IT WILL HAPPEN.
2007-02-18 23:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by goldlottodreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋