I met this dude like 3 months ago im feeling him and he is feeling me.He told me he was 24 i usually dont date dudes younger then me. Then after a couple mounths he showed me his ID and he is 20 even though he claims to be 21. I really like him hell i love him we love each other but i feel like sooner or later i maynot be enough for him. And mid life crisis is a *****. By the way im 28 what should i do?
2007-02-18 21:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by Akasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's only 8 years, not exactly a life span.
2007-02-18 21:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only prob I see is guys at 20/21 haven't matured yet...mostly. It depends on where ur at in ur life, if ur still partying or settling down. If ur settling down he may not be mature enough to give u what u need. On the other hand if ur still a party animal he may be perfect.
Like I said he is still maturing and could look for something else later when his need change with age but this can happen to anyone..... go with ur heart, if it dosn't work out at least u had a good time with him while it lasted
2007-02-19 05:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing girl. You could meet a 20 year ol that has been through a hell of a l0ot more than a 35 year old Age does not come into it it is EXPERIENCE.....If he is nice and you both like each other then GO FOR IT...................My man is 13 years older who cares......my friend married a girl 20 years older they are so happy and have recently had a baby.... Love is not age love is not physical love is spiritual.
2007-02-19 05:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by KAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age only matters to the people in the relationship...unless the youngest one is jailbait. Enjoy your time together.....in any relationship you dont know if sooner or later you won't be enough...that's the scary part about love
2007-02-19 05:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case age does matter.
Because you are older than 8 years.... not a year or twice.
If you marry him.... after some time you grow older and he remain youth for a span of time. In that period he may neglect you because you may appear older to him. And that to women appear older than their real age and men dont appear like that. He may change his mind then.
Before going to marry him.... you just think yourself. Because this is your life... not ours.
2007-02-19 06:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you couldn't even tell how old he was then it shouldn't really matter, if he's that mature for his age then that's awesome. Most guys take alot longer to mature. As long as he doesn't look like he's 12 then you're good, haha. But i think it shouldn't matter as long as you are happy with that person.
2007-02-19 05:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Foxy20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know mid-life was at 28. Give it a GO. He young & ready for some action. Sounds like you are too. . .
2007-02-19 05:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jim W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter.
Men get married to young girls all the time.
Times have changed.
Now, as for you - it is not that big a diff.
Only 8 years. Big deal. Go for it, girl. Love the man you are with.
2007-02-19 05:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long as they are over 18 and under 88 it is all good and legal , god bless Nicole smith and i wish i was the father of that child
2007-02-19 05:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by brn_bllws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he's over 18 age shouldn't be a problem go out with him.
2007-02-19 06:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. My parents were 7 years apart and it worked, for the most part.
2007-02-19 05:49:53 · answer #11 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋