2007-02-18 21:45:24 · 14 answers · asked by ihwenus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing my husband can do to make me happy is to be there for me and listen when I talk to him. Mostly it would be a lot of little things all added up together that says he's thinking of me and is happy being with me. Sex issue aside, to be held/cuddled while watching a movie without the possiblity of it leading to sex is always nice
2007-02-18 22:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her in other ways that you desire her. Sex often makes us women feel more beautiful and wanted. You can achieve this buy going to a local flower shop and buying a single simple flower
2007-02-18 22:20:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ... Why you dont want with her?
Do you have any problem to do that... see a doctor immediately and correct your problem. If it is an uncorrectable problem... you just leave your wife and let her marry some other guy.
If you dont have any problems physically ... then see a psychiatrist immediately.
Because .... its a natural need ( like food and drink) of humans. We should do that. It makes you both closer closer and very closer mentally.
Stop thinking like that.
Be happy with your wife.
All the best.
2007-02-18 22:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I shower together every night, but we only have sex about two or three times a month and very rarely is it done in the shower. I prefer the good old-fashioned bed. If your wife doesn't want to have sex, you can't force yourself onto her.
2016-05-24 07:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there - show her attention. Hold hands, kiss, cuddle. Sit with her. Be on time for supper spend time with the kids (if you have) Call her during the day at work and just say I love you. Things like that
2007-02-19 00:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of all be her best friend and be honest with her as to why you cant/wont have sex with her.If you are unable then you can incorporate toys and oral sex into your sex life.If you just dont want to then you need to tell her to go out and she will eventually and find her a big one on her own.
2007-02-18 22:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by harleyman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's weird dude.How on earth is your wife gonna be happy without all those tender feelings you felt for her??...are u serious dude?? what makes u ask these i wonder...
2007-02-18 22:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
primarily the problem is not that how to make her happy the prob is that why u r reluctant/unable to do sex with her
please speak out if really intersrested to resolve ur prob
2007-02-18 22:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think you can have a spouse and not be their sex partner? You're a low as low can get.
2007-02-19 00:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her especially when she needs you most.Tell her how beautiful she is ,how much you love her and that she's the best thing that ever happened to you
2007-02-18 21:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by sharonz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋