Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

last night I went on a date with a guy I met online, we have been in touch online and on the phone for about 2 months. He lives far from me so we agreed that he would stay at my place on the sofa as we were going for a couple of drinks, however we got a bit drunk and he ended up sleeping in my bed but we didn't have sex, he tried as any guy would I suppose, but I didn't let it happen. We got on really well and I felt that by having sex he'd lose interest and respect for me. I do regret having allowed him in my bed but was drunk and because I haven't seen anyone for a while it was nice to have someone to cuddle in bed but has he now got a bad impression of me?

2007-02-18 20:57:33 · 17 answers · asked by Liz S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've asked a question that could fill a book, and I want to hear your views. I'm a 20-year-old college student and I can't seem to find men on the same level of emotional maturity that I'm at. Any suggestions? Is this difference about hormones? Culture?

Do these guys tend to change as they mature (as I hope)? Or am I just not finding the right ones?

2007-02-18 20:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dalarus 7 in Singles & Dating

My mother who is now 65 was working with Indian Bureau of Mines, Nagpur (contigent) before she attained her 18. She had a good friend (colleague) of her by name Neela Naha. Neela Naha used to call my mother as "Feroza". After my mother's marriage in early sixties, she resigned and left with her husband. Neela Naha is a bengali and she also understood to have resigned her job and became a Doctor at a later part of her life. It is also understood that she settled somewhere in London. My mother at her post retirement life wants to meet her now. Can any one help me to get her?

2007-02-18 20:56:24 · 4 answers · asked by chappani 2 in Friends

looking to spice up the bedroom aerobics :)

2007-02-18 20:56:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do they have noticeable mannerisms, wear novelty clothing, or smell a certain way? people, I need help!

2007-02-18 20:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

my dad...he cheated on my mom and screwed her over. and told me [13 years old] and my lil sis [5 years old] that he hated us. He talked to his gf on speaker phone in front of us. stole income tax money from my mom. he did so many other things...its SICKENING. I am supposed to see him every other weekend..but I dont want to. and now he's gonna get a lawyer. Chances are..if I tell the judge all these things i wont have to go. My question is though: Would you do this to your children who looked up to you. and waited everynight for you to come home while you were at your GFs house I hate my dad..do you blame me?

2007-02-18 20:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm currently on one... but we don't see each other that often... @_@

2007-02-18 20:53:30 · 12 answers · asked by riakatrinaflayug 1 in Singles & Dating

I WAS SEEING HIM FOR 7 MONTHS, WE WERE SO CLOSE. BUT BROKE UP BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WANT ANY SERIOUS COMMITMENTS RIGHT NOW IN HIS LIFE AND FELT THAT HE WOULD BE A BETTER FRIEND THAN LOVER AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME, AS I DESERVE 100% HONESTY, COMMITMENT AND ATTENTION. SO I HAVE TRIED MOVING ON I HAVENT SEEN HIM SINCE THE BEGINNING OF JANUARY AND HAVEN'T SPOKEN TO HIM SINCE 2 WEEKS AGO WHEN HE CALLED ME TO ASK HOW MY NEW JOB WAS GOING AND HOW I WAS ETC. IT IS DRIVING ME INSANE, I AM GOING AWAY IN 2 WEEKS TO BARBADOS AS I NEED A BREAK, I KEEP CRYING ON THE WAY TO WORK, IN MY BED, AT WORK IN THE TOILETS. IT IS KILLING ME, WHAT CAN I DO TO BE GET OVER HIM AND BE HAPPY??

2007-02-18 20:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lot of girls in our university..problem becoming famous among them....i can not simply talk with even a single girl in university.......note that i am honest...and good moral keeping person thats why i am facing this problem.......i feel shy...nervous, tension....etc...please help.......my age is running out .......and still i have no idea how to date...a girl in my university...

there were days i had nothing in university,,,,now i am sitting in my own office......all facilities available.....but of vain ....i am alone in this situation.....
my friends blame me for this by telling if they were in my place thay would have dozens of girls setting in this nice office.....
i am student at the same time i am doing my job........in the same department.....how lucky i am.......but why i am like this.....
my friends are jealous from me ....but i am nothing in this connection.....please help resolve........my tension....

2007-02-18 20:51:24 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

This the most difficult part for me when dating a new guy. I enjoy being with someone going out for dinners, movies or just spending nice relaxed time together without the sex that is (I love sex but I have to get to know the person first).

My question is, how soon or late should a girl / woman sleep with a new guy? The last guy I was dating lost interest in the relationship after having sex with him!!!

And why is it that men don't say that they are only interested in casual affairs and not relationships?

Am really confused and promised myself not to give in so easily next time!!!!


Thanks for your help.

2007-02-18 20:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my older cousins had a couple of friends ove. now I don't have a problem with that, it's jut that they are all older then me! Then,they told me that I have toget out of the room! Then when the friends left, they thought I was mad at them! Of course I am!!!! Of course I didn't tell them that I was mad! Now I don't know what to do, what should I do?

2007-02-18 20:47:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I grew up having four step-dads, and I haven't seen my real father since I was three. My sister had a husband that beat her and their marriage ended in divorce. I've never had a positive example of a healthy marriage to base mine on- everyone just gives up. Now, my own marriage is falling apart (we're 24, with a four month old) I'm desperate to make my marriage work, but I feel like the fighting and arguing will never stop. My husband just doesn't respect me anymore and completely dismisses my feelings altogether. I feel like when you get to a certain point, and start to feel like the love you once had for the other person is gone- that it'll never come back again, and that scares me to death. I want to love my husband again, and make a great life for us and our baby. I want to do better than I was shown, and have a happy, drama-free marriage. I know there will always be ups and downs, but when youre as down as you can get, can you get back up again? I miss my husband so much..

2007-02-18 20:44:12 · 11 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my mom hen I was 11 and I'm now 15 but i havent seemed to cry over it any more...I know I loved her and still do and i miss her more thananything but then how come i dont seem to cry over her and show that i miss her anymore?

2007-02-18 20:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy asks you to go out a couple times and you say no, he takes the hint and never bothers ya again. Then one day your out and about and you cross paths with this man again. We make some small talk and then part ways. Within that conversation you seem confused. It`s almost as if your saying to yourself "Why did`nt he ask me again?""Why is`nt he begging for my attention like every other guy I meet"

2007-02-18 20:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

anybody is looking after their elderly parents? please share your thoughts

2007-02-18 20:42:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he looks at me very sexual in all gatherings, always hangs around me, he follows me with his eyes, and i am infatuated with him too

2007-02-18 20:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do they think hes ugly?

2007-02-18 20:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The people I want to stand up with me are my brother, sister, and two (female) friends. My bride-to-be's in the same situation; her brother and three (female) friends.

Our idea, as it stands right now, is to have our brothers as Best Man and, um, Dude of Honor, and then have three bridesmaids each.

Has anyone done something like this? How did it work out?

2007-02-18 20:35:11 · 14 answers · asked by Doc Occam 7 in Weddings

Teach me!

2007-02-18 20:33:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-what will you do if ur bf's ex keeps on sending pictures of the two of them in your bf's inbox... (i do have access to his inbox, he knows that)

-guess what i did, i cropped the picture she sent and removed her from the pic and posted it as my primary pic in my profile...what do u think? lol

-she's with another guy now, i dunno her prob...(they are in another state take note)

2007-02-18 20:32:01 · 11 answers · asked by serene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really desperate between keeping my responsibility as wife and the need to go away. I have been married for 13 years but i never feel like married person. My husband and i have bitter sweet relationship. Sometime he is good sometime he is bad -temper( u know wht the bad-temper person can do ) . i have tried my best to be a good wife. I am a loyal wife. I am with him in pain and in happy time but i never feel being appreciate.Never feel being love.Never feel being care. I give him everything i do my best . But now, everything is going sour.I am getting bored with this kind of relationship. I feel i dont love him anymore, i know this is rude but what can i do .This is reality. I have tried to overcome this problem but i cannot manage to do it and if i proceed i will being hypocrite all my life. I want myself to be happy , to be free, to feel the world. Wht should i do....? For your information...i dont involve myself with other man. Thank You ..

2007-02-18 20:31:40 · 19 answers · asked by Dana07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What little time I had with a girlfriend I was happy,

When no girlfriend very sad.


When getting attentention from girls in clubs and parties and snog or kissy paw paw happy.

When the one nobody wants feel rejected and hurt and like dirt.

So I dont get it.


How can making your sister/daughter be like the one who no football team wants on their side in school , treated as though ugly.


Or stopping anyone love her or want to be with her so she is all lonly and feeling hurt and miserable all the time with no happiness.


Maybe getting suicidal or anorexic to hope guys like her or even suicidal or harming herself as she thinks she will never get with a guy.


or trying to control her with some forced arranged marriage like a human trafficing sex slave pimp for some honour idea.



how on earth is that protecting her?


Yes the guy may dump her & only want a one night stand. so do girls. If they like each other they meet up for seconds, thirds, loose count

2007-02-18 20:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and I'm not joking. She really did. How hot IS that? She moves here in 3 days, and boy howdy do I want that. Not to be hit, I'm no masochist. Just a really hot one-time deal. Y'know?

2007-02-18 20:29:35 · 16 answers · asked by Helpful Dan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

am gettin married this week, and ours is an arranged marriage, i had only seen him in chat and in photos and he looked ok.
but recently i met him in person and i have to say i was disappointed. and then he started talkin to me, and it all seemed fine, and my disappointment sort of faded.
not to be boastful, but i do look very pretty.
since he met me, he has been askin me how come i agreed to marry him since he is not a match for me.. he asks jokingly, but i kinda feel hurt when he does so, since i really do like him.. regardless of his looks.. and i dono wat to say when he asks that question.. and am worried that my not respondin might give him the wrong impression that may be i don really like him..
i ve told him many times that i like him as he is.. is he being insecure or jus funny ? although i don think its funny...
and how can i assure him that i love him no matter how he looks ?
wat do i tell him if he brings up this issue again ?

2007-02-18 20:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have forgot where from should i change mail settings so i get 25 mails per page...thanks....

2007-02-18 20:27:39 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I the only one in this Area on Yahoo Answers ?

2007-02-18 20:27:25 · 2 answers · asked by gvaporcarb 6 in Friends

2007-02-18 20:23:57 · 11 answers · asked by Callisto 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

however, an amazing woman walked into my life 2 weeks ago and there is nothing i can do about but admit i love her like crazy and would love to be with her forever. everything is so wonderful and beautiful it's as if i am being rewarded for all the pain and suffering i have been through and still going through. i still miss my wife and will love her forever but should that stop me having deep feelings and enjoying life with someone knew. ????????

2007-02-18 20:21:29 · 30 answers · asked by curlyloxx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm getting married and want to let people know that we have everything we need already as we have lived together for over a year but would like money as a gift for bigger things later on when we move. Something short and sweet to add in the invites if you can help?

2007-02-18 20:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lilac Lady 3 in Weddings

I am going away on a school trip with one of my teachers. Now I am a good student, and I don't cause trouble, and I hand all of my work in on time. But I don't have the relationship that she has with a lot of her students. Like they will say hello and laugh together when they see each other out of class. How can I built a kind of repore with my teacher?
I think that it will make the trip much more enjoyable and comfortable.

2007-02-18 20:17:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships