Today my older cousins had a couple of friends ove. now I don't have a problem with that, it's jut that they are all older then me! Then,they told me that I have toget out of the room! Then when the friends left, they thought I was mad at them! Of course I am!!!! Of course I didn't tell them that I was mad! Now I don't know what to do, what should I do?
2007-02-18 20:47:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you sound very young. You'll get over it.
2007-02-18 20:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someday your cousins will not look at you like a little kid, but for now, they do. You need to just accept the fact that they have things to discuss with their friends that aren't appropriate for you to hear, or they just prefer not to share with you. You'll live, and being angry at them won't help, but you'll be angry again and again because it's part of growing up. If it bothers you that much, talk to them and tell them it hurts your feelings that you aren't included when they have friends over. They probably won't include you anytime soon, but at least they will know you are feeling badly about it, and eventually they will feel guilty for excluding you.By then you'll have friends of your own that you don't want to share with them, and you can kick them out of the room so you can be with your friends.
2007-02-19 05:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...so we've all pretty much established that you're young.
Just try to be mature about this, keep in mind that family always comes first. If you have an issue with privacy, calmly discuss it.
Don't freak out about it.
Yeah, I know I sound like a parent (which I'm not yet)....but take the advice from people that have answered this question.
2007-02-19 05:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that does sound pretty young......if they are older there may be some things they think you shouldnt hear....however you need to tell them! U are there too and they shouldnt leave you out......dnt worry its a phase itll be over when you get older
2007-02-19 08:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm...you do sound young. haha but I'm 13 so I shouldn't be talking. But think about it..It was rude but you'll get over it and you still have your cousin...=[ "think before you spam yahoo questions"
2007-02-19 05:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
would you want your older cousins or older brother for example hanging out with your friends?.....it is life my dear, even though you feel left out, older kids/siblings don't want the younger ones hanging out with them....Your cousins didn't invent this.......
2007-02-19 04:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in a huff, then after a while you will talk to them and get over it!!
2007-02-19 06:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Polly A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were very rude to do that to you. If they ask you why you are mad, let them know.
2007-02-19 04:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would have stayed in the room. At least until they were more polite to me.
2007-02-19 04:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋