he looks at me very sexual in all gatherings, always hangs around me, he follows me with his eyes, and i am infatuated with him too
2007-02-18 20:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he never used to look at me like this until 3 years ago , in parties he shows me with his eyes that he wants me, because the first months that i entered my husband family , i made a move on him and he basically rejected me and now after he found out about my accomplishments and that i have managed to make it well with my husband, he makes it with his eyes that he wants me, that i didnot need him after all and that i have been very successful at what i have done and have done a better job than what he did with his wife and he basically regrets that why we didnot hook up then .
2007-02-20 21:11:05 · update #1
Of course you should! He has no interest in your families or sisters feelings and neither do you....so I say go for it.
BUT....after the fling is over, he's gone, they know etc, remember that you will no longer have a family left to hurt. Will you be ok totally on your own.....knowing that she will probably take him back and he'll continue to eye up other women anyway...not YOU because he's been there done that.
Some guys fancy anything in knickers and he'll never look at you with respect again. Its more titilating to obsess over what you cant have rather than what you can. He probably gives the same looks to the women at his work....so I pity your sister.
If he's just a flirty bugger that has no intention of taking it further (just doing an ego trip thing)....he'll think you are a backstabbing hussy for coming on to him. So be aware of the different scenarios.
2007-02-18 20:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you not go there. Your Brother inlaw is married to your Sister I would assume. Think about this, if he is such a great guy, why would he try to destroy an entire family for a roll in the hay? You would be not only hurting her, but all the other family members close to you. Is it worth that. Tell your Sis, or whoever about his behavior. I can bet the reaction you get will answer your question about getting with him.
2007-02-18 20:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Joey, i might have defended Claudius besides, in basic terms for the actuality that i'm in awe at somebody being 6 inches deep in somebody else. this is a feat, i'll regrettably under no circumstances gain devoid of extenders and/or surgical operation. so far as your spouse is going, I say she could desire 6 inches buried in her to alleviate the comparable quantity of rigidity as Claudius' ex mandatory to alleviate. Your buddy, Ace
2016-09-29 07:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start an affair like this, you will damage your entire family. Do you really think you can be with your brother-in-law and have the rest of the family be OK with that?
Ignore him. NOW.
2007-02-18 20:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask his wife and/or your husband for a 3-some or 4-some.
You wanted permission to be an idiot...
OK.
Darwin needs help. Your gene pool needs some chlorine.
2007-02-18 20:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take yourself away from that temptation. Your just driving your fat ego. You will tear a family apart and in the end you'll end up with noone. Its selfish. You should break up with your husband. You sound like a total stank
2007-02-18 20:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should think long and hard before you bring something like that into your life. The repercussions are seldom worth what little bit of thrill you get from being bad. Take it from someone who knows and good luck.
2007-02-18 20:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This could cause significant problems down the road if your families are combined. Think of how it would feel if you broke up and still had to see each other.
2007-02-18 21:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah do it - why miss out on some excitement, not to mention unadulterated, no strings attached great sex, besides, you might be able to bribe him after and earn some money from it too boot!!!!!!
Ever heard the saying "What they don't know can't hurt" - as long as no one finds out then its all good!!!!
2007-02-18 20:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding? Starting an affair should never be an option. NEVER! Why would you want to hurt somebody like that?
2007-02-18 21:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋