This the most difficult part for me when dating a new guy. I enjoy being with someone going out for dinners, movies or just spending nice relaxed time together without the sex that is (I love sex but I have to get to know the person first).
My question is, how soon or late should a girl / woman sleep with a new guy? The last guy I was dating lost interest in the relationship after having sex with him!!!
And why is it that men don't say that they are only interested in casual affairs and not relationships?
Am really confused and promised myself not to give in so easily next time!!!!
Thanks for your help.
2007-02-18 20:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing you can do is take the time to get to know a guy before you have sex. I know it isn't like you are a prude about it, but you want more than just sex. I am not saying hold out as a ploy to get a man, because the fact is...if you really care about someone you and he should be willing to wait a bit. If you really pay attention you can usually tell when a guy is just in it to get some.
Some men will tell you when they are only interested in something casual if you are willing to take the step and ask. Just realize if you are on the early side of dating...it is still casual time.
2007-02-18 20:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, most men worth being with will wait until you are ready to have sex, and won't just loose interest because you did. Just bear in mind, a man won't buy a cow if he can get the milk for free. In other words, don't just give it up in casual affairs unless you are ready to be dumped afterward. Be true to yourself when the right man comes along, he will appreciate the courting as much as you do then the sex will just happen.
2007-02-19 05:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask the guy's relationship or lack there of goal? "Are you looking for a relationship?" bam done if he said yes then "hit" an ran you just found an asshole thats all. There are assholes on both sides though. My girl did the same thing to me didn't want to give in so easy made me wait a month and a half... seemed like a year and a half. I'd say a few weeks of steady dating someone if you wanted to go that route.
2007-02-19 05:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a guy who is interested in you not the one interested having sex with you.
Men don't admit that they are interested in casual affairs cause they think women don't like it.
You should have sex with him when you are sure he is not interested only in having sex with you
2007-02-19 05:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by STHATIC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋