I met this very kind and sweet guy he seemed very into me. We spent the night together and had a great time we both had drunk alot but we didnt sleep together. He was very eager to see me again so we planned to go out the next day. I was getting ready to go, he was on his way, he needed to stop and help our friend out on the way we didnt have an official time but like an hour and a half later i get a msg saying hes not feeling up to it and can we do something the next day. Im a fairly good judge of character he appeared to be genuine. He didnt care about us not sleeping together. He was drunk the night before though so maybe hereally wasnt feeling like it...? Or he isnt interested???? Help me out im confused. When i last saw him he was eager!!??
2007-02-18 23:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could have had a really bad hangover. Though it would have been better had he called and not just messaged you.
He very well could have been hoping for more from you and is now just backing out. If this is the case, consider yourself lucky. Give it a few days, but definitely let him call you.
2007-02-18 23:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be a lot of things. Maybe he was nervous and suddenly felt sick and was too embarrassed to call you about it, or he met up with a friend and he's actually a flake and went and did something else. Or he's married and is making things sound good on the outside, but his wife came home early and he couldn't call and "talk" to you so he txt you instead. (Believe me, this happens frequently). Maybe you should just ask. And call HIM. Good luck.
2007-02-18 23:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hangover or maybe he has a girl friend... if he is not interested in you anymore just let him be... he might have a girlfriend and see you as a mate...he might think he gave you hope by spending the night with you, so maybe that's why he's staying away from you right now...
2007-02-18 23:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by :( 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could it be that you saw what you wanted to see.he must have fruck out since he gave you a bad impression the first time. Give him time to get over it and if it is meant to happen he will probably call you up
2007-02-18 23:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I would say he is not interested. Maybe he just cont make it the last time but to me it sound like a excuse.
2007-02-18 23:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this guy is on a short leash after just one day. You work quick. I am sure something came up and he plans on meeting tomorrow
2007-02-18 23:12:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tuco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend probably told him something bad about you that turned him off. Call your friend and meet with him/her face to face and ask him what he told the new guy.
2007-02-18 23:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hangover from being drunk.
2007-02-18 23:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happen ends for a few days ,I be worried .Its to early to tell .
2007-02-18 23:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a hangover
2007-02-18 23:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by carloveits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋