do you think she still likes me? what should i do?

Question

okay so this girl liked me in 7th and 8th grade. i liked her but we were just friends, and at that time i was too shy to do anything about it, i also kinda liked some1 else at the time. now in high school we never talk anymore and i always catch her looking at me. whenever she walks by me she looks uncomfortable. shes a little shy when i talk to her. sometimes i catch her walking with another person smiling and then looking at me. also it seems like whenever i walk by her, her voice gets louder. she really confuses me. i dont know what to do. she talks to other guys and stuff but i dont see her getting with them, she is close to them to. i really like her and i think im in love. i want to be there for her. how can i tell if she likes me? how can i get her to like me? oh and at dances i see her looking at me, also when im dancing with another girl.

Answer 1

Yes yes yes, from what you say it really really sounds like she likes you (and is being a bit shy about it)!!!
But what's really important is that YOU like her. So obviously you should do what you WANT to do. Say hello to her, I mean don't let her just walk by without saying hello to her, and smile at her, allow yourself to be happy to see her, allow that to show, ask her how she is, how her day is going, tell her she looks pretty (or beautiful), talk with her, tell her about your day or about anything that matters to you, find ways of spending time together...

But you most likely know all that anyway. That and better things than I could list. You know you "should" approach her and go after what you want. For some people that's so easy. But some of us have to learn first to feel deep down at the core that we are valuable and naturally deserve to go after and receive what we want in life. I think a lack of self-esteem usually comes from being deeply hurt by not receiving the love we needed at some point early in our lives. It makes us subconsciously decide we're not worth receiving what we want or need. The truth is, of course, we are. We are unspeakably precious, and something is lost to the world if we don't make our marks and bring out what we have to give.

Yesterday I read in a book by a wise lady (Barbara Sher): "Whenever you feel attracted to something, you have a gift for it."
I really think you have a very very very precious gift to give this girl. Just think how lucky she is to receive it from you!!!

Answer 2

You were friends when you were younger so she obviously likes you as a person. And maybe she had feelings for you too. Now she seems to want to be friends or more now but is too shy to do anything about it, she is catching your attention so maybe you'll make the first move. Go up and say hi and talk about the days when you were friends and like ask her to go out and eat and see if you still have stuff in common

Answer 3

to end the guessing game, just go straight to her and ask if its ok to court her. no need for any long introductions or whatever, you've known each other or quite sometime, from her action, only goofy cannot feel what she's feeling about you. take your chances, talk to her directly atleast you'll know what's the real score.

Answer 4

dude....u shud have understood this sooo easily.....!
ofcourse she looking almost FOREVER at u is d most vivid signal dat ur alwayz in her mind....EVEN if she'z wid sumone else......!
go tell it to her.....have some gutz.......if she sayz a no....then chill...there r other galz as well...nd if she givez a yes....then i dont think i need to explain u furthur!!!!!

Answer 5

if you are in love with her, ask her out. if you wait, you will miss out. quit worrying if she likes you, although it sounds like she might. you'll find out if she likes you when you ask her out. if she says "yes", then she likes you. life is too short to wait.