ok.here's the problem.i keep talking a lot abt my crush, & how cute he looks & some guys in his class had gone & told him that i talk of him in a wrong way & that i constantly keep on complimenting his looks.apparently,my crush thinks i'm a psychopath now(seriously-one of my friends had explained to him that it's just my hyper way of dealing with crushes & that it's my personality but he wasn't convinced)...now he's freaked out by everything i do.(he doesn't know me very well.we hardly talk & i assume he doesn't know my real character at all,or has even bothered to find out).when i confronted him abt this & apologised,he just told me that he didn't know who to trust.was this a wise thing to do?
plus i just want to know why he thinks i'm such a psycho.i mean,i don't think that ANYONE would be freaked out by compliments & attention,are they?
guys-what would you do in a situation like this?listen to your friends,or ask the girl herself?would you even give her a chance to explain?
2007-02-18 23:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should you do in a situation your keep your honour?
thanks for the answers everyone!
2007-02-18 23:32:03 · update #1
interesting problem. after reading this i had to smile because i haven't seen this problem in years. i don't want to assume but this seems like such trivial high school type problem but it is very cute. the way i see it, there's two possible outcomes to this. let's go with the optimistic one first. the first thing you should do is start all over with him. as a lady, you should know the importance of feelings. try to find out why he's so defensive and if and when you do find out, understand where he's coming from and respect that. he may not have the experience to deal with someone as outgoing as you. get to know the real him and let him do the same. if the chemistry's there, it'll be easy. be friends first and if it becomes more then great but if not, then be happy that you have a new friend. okay, now for the pessimistic possible outcome. it's simple. he's just not into you. just move on and just realize it's his loss.
2007-02-18 23:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just your hyper way of dealing with crushes? This is the key to the problem. It's never a good thing to be hyper about anyone - especially a crush. It scares people off because they don't think you have any self-control. People who lack self-control can end up doing nasty things when they don't get what they want. Ever see the movie "Fatal Attraction"?
Back off from this guy. He's right to want to stay away. Get control of your hyper way of dealing with crushes. Take a yoga class or something to learn to control your urges.
2007-02-18 23:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a dude, i would ask the girl because i would get a more definite answer. Although i might be freaked out a bit (:P) i would still give the girl a chance to explain her story ect ect.
2007-02-18 23:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by pmc21392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once bitten,tiwce shy,hop u've learnt from yo past mistake.dont go about fooling yo self over some crush.some pepo cant stand pepo who justgo crazy about them especiaaly if there dont talk to them
if he doesnt want to belive u,tell him to piss off
2007-02-18 23:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i wont tell da world about my crush.
then even if i do i would react as if i hadnt said anything in the first place. now hes just overacting cause he knows u like him.
cause which fool would say i dont know who to trust isnt that "filmi" now if i was in your place just ignore and watch what'll happen.
ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-18 23:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by I love myself!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. first listen to ur friend then u ask that girl
2007-02-18 23:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him again and see how it goes and he may or may not be convinced that you are not a weirdo.
2007-02-18 23:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋