I like a girl and I know she don't have a boy friend , should I keep trying to make her love me or should I let her go .
I know that girls love the guy who don't stop trying , Is that true ???
2007-02-18 23:17:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not a tried and true rule. Some girls like someone who is persistent - who keeps trying, other girls don't.
My advice to you would be to keep trying, but don't become a pest. Read her body language. If she seems annoyed by your persistence, back off and leave her alone - she's not interested.
2007-02-18 23:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a big fan of the guy who DOES take no for an answer. Guys who are overly persistent, I don't know... there's something very misogynistic about it. Like, I don't know what I want, and 'no' doesn't mean no kind of thing. I just feel like, they didn't listen and they clearly don't understand me as a person. I've communicated clearly, and they're still not getting it.
I think you can try to win her over and ask her out one more time, and then you've gotta save your dignity and stop trying. Think about it, do you really want to have to CONVINCE someone to love you? I am sure there's plenty of girls who will love you without you begging them to.
Good luck.
2007-02-18 23:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EARTH TO ERIK.........EARTH TO ERIK! guy, what grow to be you wondering dumping your female friend for a lady who did not unload her guy for you. no matter if you've faith it or no longer, you both are on the rebound, exceptionally her. you do not prefer to initiate a relationship with this female and she finally ends up dumping you for her ex (karma, you dumped your female friend for some different person). i have been on your aspect of the fence except i did not understand the ex grow to be nonetheless in the picture. when I were given rejected for the ex, i grow to be devastated, indignant, green with envy............the completed niine yards. yet, I were given through it. This female has obviously informed you that she does no longer want a relationship with you. basically because you adult men had sex would not advise that she will run into your fingers and that i'm particular you are able to obviously see that. i'm sorry, yet this female makes use of you. This female has dedicated her time, heart, and concepts to this guy she has an on and rancid again relationship with. there is not any way in h*** she would have those similar emotions to you in one day. guy, you obviously want to flow on. yet, once you do, take your time to paintings on your self so that you basically isn't on the rebound. in case you do, you'll proceed this adventure of leaping from one relationship to the subsequent. you want to imagine that you deserve more beneficial advantageous. once you do, think ofyou've got more beneficial advantageous relationships. I desire you the most ideal!
2016-12-04 09:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude what's up?? well ya ..you should keep trying ..cuz she want to see if you love her for real ..and she might tell you no at the first but you keep trying..girls want some one who stay with them and trust him and that is the most important thing...don't let go bro..and everything will be fine and i'm telling you for expirance
but be nice in everything and take it slow
2007-02-18 23:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why let her go when she is so available? don't rush, getting to know each other is part of the entire dating rationale...eventually finding out who likes who..usually it's the more persistent guy that makes it. But that really depends on the signs you've been showing her.
2007-02-18 23:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Beanie.beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats right they love the guy thats going after them over and over again. They love him so much that they get a restraining order slapped on him.
2007-02-18 23:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We like guys who try, period. It's flattering to be pursued — at least, at first. If you keep it going too long, it just gets frickin' annoying.
2007-02-19 04:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more u try the chances of it turning it a bother,if u've tired,let it go before she thinks u are nothing but a bother
2007-02-18 23:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wanted to date you i think she would have said yes but you could always try one more time and then i would leave it.
2007-02-18 23:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one that keeps trying, and I marreid him in the end, 12th year this year :)
2007-02-18 23:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋