How do you show a girl you really like her when she has a bf ???
2007-02-18 03:54:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beat up her boyfriend then tell her you like her. Just kidding.
Skip the beating up the boyfriend and tell her how you feel. She may feel the same.
2007-02-18 03:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by jjayferg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you really like her, but she has a boyfriend, you should back off and give her some space. It is not fair to the other guy who likes her also. Besides, you shouldn't put her in a position to have to choose between you or her boyfriend if you decide to let her know that you like her. When and If the time comes, that she decides she no longer wants to be with her current boyfriend, then go for it. Im sure if you were dating a girl and some other guy starts snooping around her, you wouldn't like it too much. Take a look around, are there no other single girls that you would be open minded enough to get to know?
2007-02-18 04:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by keithzgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dealing with someone that is already taken is not a good idea.Because if in fact she is interested,you will be the cause of why she breaks up with her boyfriend.Would you like to be in that position, knowing you got her that way instead of wooing her on your own.In most cases, the female thinks she left her ex to soon and may still have feelings for them,and might eventually go back to them,are you willing to take that chance.I suggest you wait until she becomes available and then approach her.You would stand a better chance of keeping her that way.Most females play the back and forth game with their ex's all the time.Make yourself noticed as a friend and see how things go from there,if she has a jealous boyfriend then I suggest you play it cool.Good luck
2007-02-18 04:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first course of action should be to gouge out his girlfriend's eyes! Or if you're the more subtle type then getting in contact with one of his friends to ask about you might be the way to go. If you're really shy then you could get one of your friends to ask one of his friends, lol... Personally I would just try and initialize a conversation with him sometime and see if you have something in common to get some sparks going. If you don't find anything to talk about, then you're probably just wasting your time anyway. =) Good luck!
2016-05-24 02:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, telling her your feelings while she has a boyfriend would be very rude and disrespectful. It sounds as if you're really meaning for something to go wrong between them. Wait until after they break up to do anything about, and then just write her a sweet, to the point note and put it in her locker. O, and if her boyfriend were to find what you told her, you'd better watch your back. <3
2007-02-18 04:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow..ok...dont exactly come out and tell her..that could cause some problems...just tell her if she needs anything then you are there, and if she needs to talk then youre there, just be there for a her, and be a friend. if she likes this guy then nothings going to make her change her mind. now, if youre a really good friend and you are willing to do anything for her, then show that. just dont go out and exactly tell her. she will more and likely start liking you because youre kind, sweet, and always there for her. if they get intoa fight or argument, then comfort her....be yourself.thats what girls want..hope i helped.
2007-02-18 04:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by bits 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You treat her good. It's not that complicated. You don't have to buy her stuff (unless she's with you for that). You SHOW her that you will be there for her. If she's in a depressed mood, ask if there's anything you can do for her. Do NOT lie to her!!! That's a big no no. Tell her she can tell you anything. If mostly just takes time to let her know you care. You know what I mean?
2007-02-18 03:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well from a girls point of view
dont come on to strong because that will make her back away to her boyf. you have to be suttle & make sure he doesnt find out, because she might choose him instead of you.
just flirt or use eye contact to grab her attention!
its the best thing in my opinion =]
i hope this helped
good luck with the girl =]
2007-02-18 23:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend leave her alone. Would you really want a girl to leave her boyfriend for you, don't you think someday she may do the same to you. Find someone else who isn't taken
2007-02-18 03:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend just tell her if she evers breaks up with him she should let you know. This way you're letting her know you are interested but you're not causing any problems. It will make her feel good to know someone else is interested in her.
2007-02-18 03:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
J-Roc, you shouldn't really get involved. She has a bf. Stay friends with her, and IF her and her bf split up, then fair enough you can step in.... But when she has a boyf, I don't think you should get involved..
2007-02-18 03:58:16 · answer #11 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋