ok i am not stupid i am not in love with this guy.maybe sumday i could be, but 4 now itz just fun, and we do that we have SO much fun together! we act like little kids when we get together sometimes, the main problem is if we wanna go out on dates or have any real fun, we have 2 leave our small town and go to a one of the bigger cities near us because of the gossip (this being my idea, he said to screw them but gossip getz back 2 my momma real easy!), only a few people know we are together (2 keep momma from finding out).the reason she can't find out and most ppl look down on our realationship is cuz he is so much older than me i am 16 and he is 32, when we first me i thought he was around 25 or 26, and he thought i was about 18 or 19 (i do look older than i am) but by the time we had even bothered to ask each other ages we had been talkin on the phone (mainly via textin) and had gotten really intrested in each other. is there really any thing wrong with us, and should i ever tell mom?
2007-02-18 03:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YES
2007-02-18 04:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong here is that your still a minor and he can get thrown in jail for having sex with you. Are you aware of this? And a 32 yr old man should not be pursuing a 16 yr old girl. Whatever you do, don't tell your mom, and If i were you, i would tell this guy to cool it until you turn 18.
2007-02-18 11:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it really depends, if he sincerely thought you were older and you really thought he was younger and you never discussed your age then, i mean, its still wrong that he still wants to see you... he is a pedophile technicaly, and you should probably research into the history of the ages of his last g/fs and if they were all younger, then this guy is a loser obviously....when you are older you will realie this... but for now, i remember being 16, and i pretty much just wanted sex from the older guys, not a relationship, and why, because it was an excitement, the same excitement of dating a 16 yr old that he gets out of you... on top of him being older, he will want to settle down, and at 16 i HIGHLY recommend not doing that... there are sooo many guys out there and you cant stop at `16. BEST OF LUCK THO . â¥
2007-02-18 11:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 you may be not matured to fall for a serious relationship. Give yourself some cool-off period and ask yourself if this is what you want. If you decide to proceed with the relationship, you need to first speak with your mom. Gossips or not its respect. Your mom has better experience and knows more about life than you do thus its best to speak with her. Ask your mom's permission if you could invite him to the house for a cuppa or meal. Let your mom evaluate him and give you an honest opinion about him One day you'll be grateful that you were honest with your mom and seek her opinion.
2007-02-18 11:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no an older man is just what you need (Thats if he has money) Tell your dad and he will be a very happy camper to know that you love a man 10 years older than you. Maybe old dad might just have a talk with your man-child person and let him know of what he thinks. Go ahead and let your dad know and see what happens.
2007-02-18 11:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by jon l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you better have your parents permission or the 32 year old could see himself in jail. The age of consent and all of that legal stuff. Better tell your mom or your guy might just see himself under arrest.
2007-02-18 11:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by bomullock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you , im seeing a 50+ year old man, im 24 years old when i knew him, you must know the you will be getting a lot of rubbish from people who don't know, but, well, the decision lies with you , do what you deem fit, but pls tell your mom. She deserves to know.
2007-02-18 11:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-18 11:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom if you wish but dump the guy. He's using you. Way to old to be dating a 16 year old. He knows what he's doing and he needs to be in jail for it.
2007-02-18 16:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you are kinda tellin my story. i met this guy when i was 15(i told him i was 17) at a quad race, and he told me he was 22(he was 32, and married) we fooled around (everything, except sex) his wife ended up finding out, and they divorsed. i ruined someones marriage, and didn't even know he was in one. well he can get in alot of trouble, i recently went on the sex offender list in michigan and there was 6 ppl that i knew on there, sadly... he'll be next.
2007-02-18 11:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want you to do me a favor and say this out loud:
"I just found out that a 32 year old man has been seeing my 16 year old daughter."
How does that sound to you? Because to me, it sounds absolutely horrible.
2007-02-18 11:25:52 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋