I have a close lesbian friend who loves me. She knows I'm straight. The thing I've been wondering recently is if actually deep down I might have the same feelings that I don't relize yet. It doesn't make sense. I find some woman attractive, but NEVER anything like, "Mmm, baby give me some of that!". In fact, I feel weird seeing a woman I don't knows crouch. The reason I ask is I drempt the other night, the same night I was hanging with her and another friend, that we had sex. Not making love, but we said what the hell and had sex. I woke up quite surprised. It's been a while since I had a sex dream, though I've been single for 7 months. I just wonder if deep down I feel the same or am starting to. Maybe it was because I've been fattisizing about making out with Brendon Urie from P!ATD. What do you think?
2007-02-18 03:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I think that you are curious about women but don't think you are BI..If you can't look at another women and feel attracted then you are straight....As women we all wonder "WHAT IF" your friend may make you feel comfortable enough to try it once....And you may want to consider it the feeling may never go away until you really no for sure!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-02-18 03:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by esmccann2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably havng the dreams because you are thinking about the whole idea in general everyday therefore you are subconsiously thinking about it. i have lesbian dreams all the time and i find myself to be very straight. have you ever experimented? maybe you should and you might find you like it or you dont... and go from there... obviously if you dont like it, then you obviously know the answer.... maybe you just enjoy the company of women and the intamacy you can get emotionally, but not nessecarily physically. best of luck
2007-02-18 11:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just be bi curious. you can always try it out and see if you liked the experience. it sound like you've just been single for a while and have been hanging around with someone who likes the opposite sex so you've started to be curious about what it would be like to be with a woman. you'll probably find that you'll grow out of the phase.
2007-02-18 11:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just attraction, nothing more can be said right now but if you stay single for some more time then it may change into something totally different and you may start to feel same as ur friend. good luck anyways
2007-02-18 11:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by ~Mevsim~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl i know whatcha mean i be feeling the same way!But maybe you do have sexual feelings for that girl...! why dont you give it a try at being Bi and see if you like it or not and if you dont just go back to your normal self!
2007-02-18 11:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by babyluv4u_14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're straght. Many woman fantasise about having intercourse with another woman. It's nature, and it you were, you wouldn't be considering, you'd know weather you were or not.
2007-02-18 11:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably just bi curious and there's nothing wrong with exploring that side of yourself.
2007-02-18 11:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋