seeing signs of red flags. I tried to talk to her about them but I was made to feel my conserns were not important. at this time I desided to put the breaks on our relationship. I wanted some time to think this out. Durring this time we did see eachother from time to time and I desided to not persue a b.f g.f. relationship but to keep it on the friends path. This was hard for me to do because I do love her and I dont like to hurt her. I am a communicator and she is a fighter. I a upset that she is bashing me now when she talks to her friends. I know deep in my heart that I treated her (and her kids) with love and respect and shouldnt feel bad but I do.
2007-02-18 00:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by tuesdeliv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't take responsibility for her acts.. She was like this before you got involved.. She had history and possibly issues from her past relationship.. Did you love her because you loved her or because you felt sorry for her and wanted to rescue her?.. I'd move on.. Lot's of nice women out there. . Circulate my friend!
2007-02-18 00:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit the relationship now, no ties, not another chance.
Love someone who respects you, and themselves.
Love someone who you can respect.
Do not let this go any farther. The only way some people will ever learn is to suffer the consequences of their actions and as long as you continue you are in effect saying "Go ahead and treat people like crap." Is that worth it for even one more day?
2007-02-18 00:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people feel the need to stay friends with people who are toxic? Are you just trying to hurt yourself? You deserve better, why is it so hard to believe that you are allowed to be happy?
Lot's of people play mind controlling head games just to feel powerful--don't fall for it! If you are a kind person, wait for your reward and don't settle for a crappy relationship with a crappy person!
2007-02-18 00:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You KNOW the truth, right? So, why worry about what she does, or what other people think? You treated her with dignity, and respect.....I wouldn't give a flip what others think, as long as YOU know that! Hold your head up high, and move on!
2007-02-18 00:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the negative drag your life down in the drain. Wake up my friend, there are lots of nice people around you on this earth. You can find better person, be confident in yourself.
2007-02-18 01:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why you feel bad as far as i know you do the right things you treat them right,you give them love and respect
give it more time maybe shes still angry with you
if these doesnt work you
get a wrong woman for your self
talk to her again
goodluck
2007-02-18 00:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then maybe she isn't right for you and i know you don't want to hear that but telling you what you want to hear won't get you anywhere and if you feel like this is the girl for you then give it some time...
2007-02-18 00:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by ilovegodiva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋