Family & Relationships - 18 February 2007

How do i become single after 5 years. I have been in a really bad relationship for a few years now. I love him with all my heart and sole but neither of us have trust in each other. I dont want to break up but part of me does because i keep getting hurt and he wants all the control. I know he loves me as well. If i was to become single how would i do that knowning i still love him?

2007-02-18 01:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Krista H 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife thinks that I like to crossdress on ocasion, she is cool with it. However she does not know that I actually more into xdressing than she knows. I shop for womens clothes for myself, she does not know that i am on here asking guestions of other crossdresser etc. I think you see my pint. Should i tell her that i am more into it than she knows??
Thanks-

2007-02-18 01:39:50 · 20 answers · asked by balletguy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A very cherished relative who passed several years ago was not buried, but instead was cremated. We scattered the ashes in the ocean.

Now we would like a place similar to a graveyard where we could pay respects to her or put flowers at every so often, like a memorial. We thought about planting a tree or buying a spot of land. Any other ideas? Please, only serious ideas.

2007-02-18 01:39:36 · 4 answers · asked by Tara 2 in Family

I'm so upset right now at my girlfriend!! I don't know what to do!! We got into a HUGE argument "i don't feel like going into that" I called her up and told her we needed to talk and she got REALLY rude with me and told me she was sleeping! I want to just drive to her house right now and talk to her but it's only 9:30 in the morning! She told me she was working until 6 like me so we'd talk then! I don't want to talk then!! I WANT TO GET ALL OF THIS OUT NOW!! I WANT TO TELL HER HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW!! I want to tell her how hurt i am right now to her face! what should i do?

2007-02-18 01:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

of chicken on her plate because she couldn't finish it. I was using a ranch flavored dipping sauce, and she was using a honey mustard sauce. My question is what sauce do you like the best? Ranch or Honey mustard?

2007-02-18 01:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by hank 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been friends with befenits if u know wat i mean. It's been like that for two months or more. Just want to know will he care when I tell him that we can't just have it no more. Because I like this other guy but nuttin's happen yet. But the problem is I still have feelings for my guy friend.

2007-02-18 01:37:36 · 9 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if I am exaggerating but I haven't seen my bf in about 4 days, not even on valentine's day. Then on friday he told me he wanted to see me but had to help his baby mother because she has no place to live anymore since her mother moved and ever since that call I still haven't heard from him. I am very upset because during those few days I was sick and text him and called him but no reply. I understand he is helping his bm but I feel he could have atleast called, but I guess he wants to get back with her. I just still feel he should have told me whta was going on and etc. Now I dont know what to do, I dont even want to see him or talk to him. I call him private and I just want to tell him I HATE HIM. But my friend told me I have to confront him, but I cant even stand the sight of him. On top of that I dont know what to say to him, anymroe. I just feel like this "relationship" was a lie. I feel so hurt and lost. I thought he really cared about me. I feel so stupid.....

2007-02-18 01:36:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 01:36:20 · 4 answers · asked by Help me out 1 in Singles & Dating

i & my husband get married 6 years a go we have a butyfull daughter.we live in a very nice house,we have a car & we both have job.peaople gosssip that he had anaffair.but i coouldn´t belive b/c i love him.i ask him .he swear that he never had one.i even tried to control his feeling and i always worried what makes him to stop making love with his wife.that is not our only problem ,he miss treated me,i must did what ever he ask me to do.i always accept.but this couldn´t help.he did not respect my family.he always saied "you know no thing,you don´t understand......& he think i´m stupied.some times i think of separretion but i kept quiet for the sack of my little girl.she is my firist child but he have a boy & two dauters from his x-wife.he always shoutt at me.every thing he saied is write but mine is wrong.this is all my detailes.please help me to solve this problem.thank you.

2007-02-18 01:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by halal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am fooling around with an ex (together for 1 1/2 apart for 7 months, fooling around for 3 months) that says he is not involved with someone else but I feel otherwise. I have serious feelings for him, in my mind we have no chance, but in my heart he is everything....Help Needed....Move on or Stick it Out and C Where IT Leads?

2007-02-18 01:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by MzLadee25 1 in Singles & Dating

I've read a few answers to the "How do I know if he likes me" questions. However, I don't see any of the same signs in my situation. I don't hang out with this guy that often, but here are the signs that he drops.:

makes me laugh
taught me a new game
nice
trustworthy
kind
respects me for me

Does he like me?

2007-02-18 01:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie S 2 in Singles & Dating

i ve told my past to boyfriend the thing is that it flashes in front of his eyes n cant sleep we both love each becoz of this he doesnt want to marry we have been intimate is there any solution to forget past any kind of medicine or watever

2007-02-18 01:33:38 · 5 answers · asked by rocket m 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a nice guy but tired of being hurt. I meet women that like to ask for things such as money yet Cause Im kind I get burnt. Two times now this has happened. Both times the same result Kids they have Cas is in there lifes I better their life's then they take my money then run Why does this happen. I dont want to have any other relationship ever again...

2007-02-18 01:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by imgreatforyou 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a pretty fked up situation. I'm a college freshman, and I have had a crush on this girl for about a month. We don't know each other too well. We have talked only a few times. In the 1st 2 weeks of the semester, she looked at me quite a lot. And I have found her very gorgeous since the first day of the class we are in. On Valentine's Day I gave her a small card because I was so worried about some other guy making a move. I was aware that what I did was very risky, considering that we don't know each other too well. However, she seemed quite pleased when I gave her the card. As a result, I gained some confidence. Now things have become quite awkward. We have the class on MWF, and we went to the library on Friday. When I was entering the library, she had been at the lounge. She seemed to be waiting for someone. I thought that was me. We entered the computer lab together, but we didn't really talk. She wasn't that friendly, and our conversation lasted like 5-6 seconds

2007-02-18 01:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 01:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

i recently me this guy. he loves me and i love him too*
though we live in the different country, he loves me enough to have arranged my plane ticket and invite me to come see him.
he told me i'm his ideal and i also feel the same way about him.

what bugs me is the presence of his ex-wife.
they divorced about 2 years ago.
he told me the reason were because they both were too immature at that time, but also, his wife got cancer and she didn't wanted to be a burden to him with all the cares and medical costs and so on, so she filed divorce.
after the divorce, she has changed her hospital and he can't find her anymore. her family doesn't want to contact him because he's a foreigner and were against their marriage in the first place.

he tells me that he's totally over her.
he's even going to move to U.S in few months.
i know i shouldn't be suspecting this but does he love me to get over her?
how can i know that he truely loves me?

2007-02-18 01:27:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need one i used my last one jk i just want to have it cuz u never know im only 14

2007-02-18 01:26:40 · 10 answers · asked by Frankie 1 in Singles & Dating

A stupid moron who knows nothing...redundant by the way..does that mean we are friends?

2007-02-18 01:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

We will have roughly 150 guests, and are looking for a wedding ceremony location near Barclay Towers, 809 Atlantic Ave, Virginia Beach, VA. A Christian non-denominational location would be best, but we will consider anywhere that would marry a Catholic and a non-denominational Christian. Suggestions are greatly appreciated!! Thank you!

2007-02-18 01:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Casey 2 in Weddings

he has temporary custody of my neice his history includes drug, spousal abuse and child abuse here in california he now lives in ohio apparently they don't do back round checks for other states anyways my brother is trying to get his daughter back ohio wants him to take a mental evaluation test i am pissed i need to know what can i do to have my neice taken from his home. he's also an alcoholic and i don't think he's appropriate parent material i would appreciate andy advice you could give. thanks

2007-02-18 01:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by shanees2004 1 in Family

2007-02-18 01:25:15 · 4 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

ive recently been thinking about trying to find my dad,and i have discussed this idea with my best friend but she said that its not such a good idea,because if my dad wanted to know where i am he would of tryed to get in contact with me,but he might of tryed to get in contact with me before im not so sure about it.im 15 and i want to know who my dad is,what hes like,do i have any more brothers or sisters.ive asked my mum about his and she said that she had tried to find him before and there was no succsess.is this such a good idea trying to find my dad? please give me your opinion and do you know any webites that i could use? thanks

2007-02-18 01:25:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-18 01:24:17 · 21 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats your screename?

2007-02-18 01:23:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Great,mind blowing... Lets here the truth? just like women not every man is good at the art of making love............. curious

2007-02-18 01:23:14 · 4 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-18 01:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by lias 1 in Weddings

2007-02-18 01:21:49 · 13 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dancing with a girl friend of many years. Lately, there has been a seeming escalation of feelings within our friendship. We were dancing and got stopped to learn something. During the stopped time, we never let go of each other's hands. That had never happened before. Then later, when we are about to go out on the floor to dance, I grabbed her by the hand and we held hands all the way until we were dancing. Also, when I was dancing with someone else, I caught her eye a few times.

2007-02-18 01:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

does it?

2007-02-18 01:20:48 · 6 answers · asked by alyssa K 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex gf and i broke up over two months ago, and she just called me 3 timres last week for the first time we talked over the phone in 2 months.She sounded like she missed me but i couldn't tell and she was shocked and very thankful when i sent her flowers on V-Day,and was blushing like crazy i could tell over the phone.Even though she says she still doesn't know hat she wants yet.Should i ask her if i should come see her for the weekend in the next few weeks, or should i wait for her to ask me?since were about 300 miles apart.

2007-02-18 01:20:43 · 5 answers · asked by cramsnomme 2 in Singles & Dating