we've been friends with befenits if u know wat i mean. It's been like that for two months or more. Just want to know will he care when I tell him that we can't just have it no more. Because I like this other guy but nuttin's happen yet. But the problem is I still have feelings for my guy friend.
2007-02-18 01:37:36 · 9 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy and will say this. IF he is getting what he wants he is nOT going to commit. I AM NOT CALLING YOU THIS, but there is an old saying that goes, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" I hope you understand. CUT him off and see if he still likes you, and that will tell you something right away.
2007-02-18 01:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any time a girl has sex with a guy, the feelings will follow...even if it starts as FWB, she is gonna develop romantic feelings sooner or later. That's just the way we are wired, I guess. Guys can have sex and not care.... maybe is has something to do with thier genitals being on the outside of their body, and ours being internal.
If you like a different guy, it's a good idea to end your FWB relationship. I hope you can maintain the friendship, but if he can't handle being friends without benefits, then how much of a friend was he ever, really? I mean, if he was only in it for the sex, there is no respect there.
2007-02-18 01:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by not yet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't being friends with benefits mean that either of you can hook up in a relationship and the two of you will still remain friends.....doesn't the benefit part only apply when neither of you is in a relationship with someone else. That's how it should be. The friendship always stays but the beneifts don't.
2007-02-18 01:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is impossible for anyone on here to determine without knowing the dynamics of your guys relationship... if he has other girls then it wont effect him as much, but if i had to guess then yeah he will care to some degree, maybe some jealousy, maybe some regret.. if he fell in love with another girl how would you feel?.. put yourself in his place and it might help you break the news... you may feel guilty about it and it may hurt him but hopefully he will realize you have done nothing wrong.. good luck to you
2007-02-18 01:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by Matt H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the same problem with my lady...relationship is just sex. She was good with it but six months later shes not to sure and Im not gonna change anything. Hes just there for the sex babygirl hes not gonna change for u. Why should he?
2007-02-20 17:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that yo got in this situation. `Cause you wanted those Benefits. You shold've waited until your found Mr. Right. Good Luck. Men aren't always ready to give up something, so easy.
2007-02-18 01:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get as much as you can . have both .
when you feel guilty , take a martini. thats all.
you cant learn life if you push to the limit.
even you take three or four guys , its ok.
life is an adventure.
2007-02-18 01:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have it both ways...you have to choose one.
2007-02-18 01:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mickey22_jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him
2007-02-18 01:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by charles w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋