How do u recover from the pain when u are left by your boyfriend?

Answer 1

I know how you feel we have all been there. Get yourself out and about with your friends. Looking back at some of my relationships I can't believe I cried and was hurt by some of the idiots I'd been out with it was like my world ended. In a few months time you'll wonder why you wasted your time.

Answer 2

I am going through the same thing it has been two weeks for me.I have found you need to allowe yourself to cry as much as you need to. You need to morn that loss in your life it is like anything else. Call a friend if it becomes so painful. Take care of yourself sleep eat get dressed get out live. It is hard for awhile but in time you will heal.And yes you will be tempted to call or see him don't it will only keep the hurt around longer and do not get involved right away until you can go days with out crying over him thinking about him or trying to run into him somewhere. You are ready when you can look in a mirror and say your loss good bye loser. You will be ok.I promise all things take time and you will be loved and valued by someone again when you least exspected it.

Answer 3

With time, good friends and family to be with, staying busy, and not dwelling or listening to sad love songs all day. I've fallen vctim to the sad love songs a few times!
But seriously, get out there, hang out with friends, work more hours, do anything, especially with friends you have that will keep you busy. Not only will it probably be really productive for you, but it will be easier not to think about him, you will meet other guys, and you will see that you CAN be happy without him even if it just starts out in small spurts. The small spurts will definitely grow until all the pain is gone!
GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

The transaction between being without him and becoming fine with the breakup will take time. let your self be okay with being single. being single is fun cuz you get to ahh at all the guys that you coldnt before. look at the bright side of things before you decide life is horrible. i was dumped by a guy that i loved and we still became best friends becase we knew so much about each other and even though i moved we still talk alot even about the breakup and the past relationship. i think that its more fun to be out of a relationship from a person that you can still be friends with than to morn about the loss. good luck and i hope things get better for you!!!

Answer 5

I go to Karaoke and belt out a few tunes like - I Will Survive, You Outta Know, Since You Been Gone, etc. For me, it's a great way to "get it out". My favorite song is Survivor by Destiny's Child.

I also make a CD of break-up songs that make me feel uplifted and reassure me that it will be fine. Here's a list of suggested songs for moving on... http://breakup-songs.com/movingonsongs.html

And remember... living well is the best revenge. If he's got a big ego, he'll expect you to be crushed... so go out, have fun, be happy, look your best, and don't waste a thought on him... eventually, you won't have to work at it, you will actually BE happy again.

Answer 6

You just do. Think yourself lucky when he has left the best thing to ever happen to him. He is the loser here. Hold your head up high. Be strong and stay positive.The memory will fade over time, believe me. And when you are at that point, you can look back and think, what the hell was I thinking. Eventually you will find Mr. Right and you will know it. Even if you think the one you just lost was him. Carry on, keep yourself busy, and watch how time flies.Good luck, don't look back.

Answer 7

You enroll in my Class of Love 101. One Lesson. We've taken Love away from The Heart. And it's the only place that Love will survive, long term. We show Love, from the Eyes, `cause we think someone is Good Looking. We see Love from our Heads? ` Cause we don't wanna be alone. Or we have Love from our Crotch. `Cause we think we need to be satisfied. But Love will only grow and be allowed to last. If it's from the Heart. Your Heart. Ans his Heart. Ans they must be allowed to connect. For it to last. Your Heart won't lie, cheat or make you unhappy. It needs you to be able to be alive. Listen to what it says. You can't go wrong. My Students Graduate, when they do fall in Love. When should I order your Diploma?

Answer 8

Its very easy for ladies. Get a new guy. You dont have to, but You should go blond if your not already. Us guys are drawn to blonds like bugs to a light. It will also piss off your old boyfriend when he finds out. Make yourself available. Be places where people you like hang out. Also dont act sad when your there. People are drawn to happy people and I know that's hard at this point in time for you. Good luck to you and screw him.

Answer 9

When I broke up with my boyfriend, I surrounded myself with friends and family. Kept myself occupied, and reminded myself I was better off alone then to be with someone who didn't love me. You have to stay positive and forget about him, as quickly as possible. Staying sad over something like that will only hold you back from continuing your life and you'll never find another man if you can't forget about this one. Move on, it's worth it!

Answer 10

Move on and find a new man in your life. Don't let the negative force drag you down in the drain. Be confident, there are lot better things in store for you than the loser who left you.