I'm a nice guy but tired of being hurt. I meet women that like to ask for things such as money yet Cause Im kind I get burnt. Two times now this has happened. Both times the same result Kids they have Cas is in there lifes I better their life's then they take my money then run Why does this happen. I dont want to have any other relationship ever again...
2007-02-18 01:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by imgreatforyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my son has the same problem,he's 27,i don't know why,i guess your'e just not finding the right women,don't give up and when you find one don't give your whole heart or money etc.. right away take some time to get to know them!
goodluck
2007-02-18 01:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't say ever again, i know you may feel that way right now but it will get better. This is the time to sit back and ask yourself why do i give these women money, (is it because i think i can hold on to them?) do i look or act as if i have money? am i a needy person? Does it make me feel like a man when i let these women treat me like a door mat? Really dear i don't mean to sound as if i am picking on you, but this is about how you feel and why you seem to attract these kind of people. My opinion is to get back on the horse (so to speak) and try again, we all learn from our mistakes, don't be so trusting until you really know the person you are involved with. Good luck.
2007-02-18 01:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you LET women take advantage of you. You can't blame them for taking your money and using you, only you can give them the money and take advantage of you. Not all women are reliant witches who go after men for their money. Maybe you're picking the wrong girls. Look for women who have their own career, make their own money. When you start looking for higher class women you might just come to find that you aren't always getting burned. Of course, if you date women with no job and 3 kids she's going to have to get her money from some place. These women can smell a weak man the moment they see him. So, it's not the women doing this to you...it's you doing it to yourself.
2007-02-18 01:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie up your purse strings and go for a friendship that balances out, not tips in the wind.
hurt sometimes is the point of no return but in a "good" relationship, there is always give and take with the heart. that is what balances the "better and worst" you recite in a marriage
2007-02-18 01:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your other side, be a rocker and enjoy life, it works. You dont have to go for engagement until you meet the right one.
2007-02-18 01:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dosage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, no one can anyone take advantage of you without your knowledge. if you think you will get love by only doing esp in love relationship, you are mistaken cz you might get nothing more than sympathy. these women are not drowned by your giving so they moved on. heal you pain of loss of relationship. you need to believe in yourself, love yourself, forgive yourself, accept yourself before you get into another relationship, then the relationship will be unconditional.
2007-02-18 01:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize emotion is not tied to pursestrings if you r giving money then of course there r always gonna be takers....Isnt right, but that is now human nature apparently
2007-02-18 01:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by MzLadee25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be controlled by love,have a limit and don't go all out for a lady.
2007-02-18 01:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by prettyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then do that pliz.
2007-02-18 01:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋