I'm so upset right now!!!?

Question

I'm so upset right now at my girlfriend!! I don't know what to do!! We got into a HUGE argument "i don't feel like going into that" I called her up and told her we needed to talk and she got REALLY rude with me and told me she was sleeping! I want to just drive to her house right now and talk to her but it's only 9:30 in the morning! She told me she was working until 6 like me so we'd talk then! I don't want to talk then!! I WANT TO GET ALL OF THIS OUT NOW!! I WANT TO TELL HER HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW!! I want to tell her how hurt i am right now to her face! what should i do?

Answer 1

It's all about you huh? Is that why you got into an argument too??? Lighten up bro, you are NOT the most important thing in the world...nothing you can say now, isn't gonna wait till later...and you may actually make more sense. Poor baby, his feelings are heart and he wants to show her NOW...(stamp your foot and act like a child here)

Answer 2

It sounds like you are very upset. I think it would be better if you had some time to calm down before having the talk. when you are so mad, you could say something you might regret later. the idea is to get your feelings out not to hurt someone elses. right? Wait till you are calm and have had time to think things through. You might change your mind about a few things after thinking about them. Or mabe not. give yourself a chance to really think about what is wrong , so you can express it to your gf rationally. Good Luck

Answer 3

Sounds like she is hurt by you too. Or that she is not wanting to continue the relationship. It dislike saying that but it could be what's going on. If it were me I'd go over to her home and talk with her. 9:30 really isn't that early. Just remember that you should never make someone priority if you are only an option to them. Good luck and God bless!

Answer 4

it depends on what happened, but she may b upset to or mad, send her a text tell her what u feel, but just wait till she is ready or you could make the matter worse, but dont worrie ok, im sure she still loves u otherwise she would not say she will talk to you later, just try calm down and if u need to talk, just email me ok, we can talk about it if u like, take care, stay home and smile, even though its hard

Answer 5

Sounds like you are either wanting it to work or on your way out in this relationship. Either way she clearly acts like you are on her time and she does not value you or your feelings. Either way you and her need to talk but before work. Go drive over there and let me know if it works out if not you do not need to be walking around like this all the time she is clearly stressing you out.

Answer 6

first cool down yourself, no point gettg upset anymore... if she refused to talk then i suggest u should give up the idea of talking to her too. no point drive up to her house n insist a talk.. it makes u look like u are demanding and makes things even worse for yourself. Be calm, the cooler u are, the better u can handle her. 'a mature man never act things rashly'

Answer 7

you need to calm down first,,wait awhile take a chill pill, relax. think things out calmly. then when you've calmed down then find a good time for the both of you to talk. if you do it now, only bad things will come of it. nothing good ever comes from anger.

Answer 8

Might be best to wait calm down and think of what your trying to say about your relationship

Answer 9

respect her wishes,calm down and wait until she's ready to talk,that way you will have time to calmly talk to her not argue or shout at her.please take this time to CALM DOWN!

Answer 10

first you go to her & say sorry with kind manner & slightly weep with tears .
bag apardon for yor behaviour.
do everything with full of confidence.