i & my husband get married 6 years a go we have a butyfull daughter.we live in a very nice house,we have a car & we both have job.peaople gosssip that he had anaffair.but i coouldn´t belive b/c i love him.i ask him .he swear that he never had one.i even tried to control his feeling and i always worried what makes him to stop making love with his wife.that is not our only problem ,he miss treated me,i must did what ever he ask me to do.i always accept.but this couldn´t help.he did not respect my family.he always saied "you know no thing,you don´t understand......& he think i´m stupied.some times i think of separretion but i kept quiet for the sack of my little girl.she is my firist child but he have a boy & two dauters from his x-wife.he always shoutt at me.every thing he saied is write but mine is wrong.this is all my detailes.please help me to solve this problem.thank you.
2007-02-18 01:35:06 · 5 answers · asked by halal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
now you know why he has an ex wife.
It's scary, and a big step, but you need to get out of this relationship.
Do you want to spend the rest of your life like this?
you daughter's life?
You will never be happy if you stay.
He obviously has no respect for you.
The only one that can change the situation for you and your daughter is you.
You have to be brave, and take the steps necissary to get out of this relationship and find a way to live happy and dignafied every day instead of hurt and humiliated.
Do you want your daughter to grow up listening to him call you stupid and worthless???
How long before he starts saying those things to her instead of you?
2007-02-18 01:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 take pimp slap 101...yep women can b pimps 2! but if u cant pimp slap him make sure u have on ur tennis shoe's, run!OK y'all have a little girl. do u think he going 2 stop the abruise before she understands what's going on?does she understand already? how long before u flip out and do a Larina Bobbitt and have him looking 4 his soup bone on the highway? and the police looking 4 u, cause his soup bone got ran over by a mack truck! lol trying 2 make it a joke but it is serious. sometimes it better 2 walk away then b carried out! sounds like a vile relationship! and human spirit can only take so much pounding till it fights back. be safe sugar!
2007-02-18 09:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly is he abusive?does he hit you? is he verbally abusive? If your answer is yes to these two question i'd suggest to move on.You don't want your child to be growing up in abusive environment as this will affect her when she grows up.Also don't worry about difficulty in bringing up your child.you could get some assistance from family members to care for her while you work to support her education,don't stay on if you have been abuse by your husband.No man should disrespect your family and you.so what if he is your husband,he should think about what type of family he wants to bring into this world not just making babies.take care
2007-02-18 09:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by nadienia864 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he is doing is controlling and abusive...why would you want to be in a relationship like that...you and your dtr. deserve better....good luck
2007-02-18 09:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
verbal abuse just as bad as physical abuse,no one can tell you when to leave,only you know when you've had enough.good luck
2007-02-18 09:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋