a private investigator would be perfect,none around here,and people are too scared of the chick being cheated on to tell her the truth,and her boyfriend madethe comment that he couldnt find a chick to mess around with him because their allscaredof his girlfriend, yea,right!We allknow some chicks thrive on messing with other womens men.PLEASE HELPSTOP THE AGONY,all of you trustworthy fellow women and men.The signs r there, but shes blind to love,please help her see the truth.
2007-02-18 00:34:44 · 4 answers · asked by blueeyesrmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
look the best way to find out is to not see him as much, work more have things to do. if he is seeing someone else he will use that time to continue mess around but if he is not then he will want to find out why you arent around as much anymore and that is because he misses you!
2007-02-18 00:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is cheating, it can be very hard to take if you find out from somebody else or even worse, yourself! Use the following steps to secretly investigate a suspected affair.
Realize that if it's gotten to the point that you seriously suspect he's cheating, your relationship is already on thin ice.
Remember that honesty is the best policy. Talk about it. Don't try and catch him secretly. Just ask him up front. If he won't tell you the truth, then even catching him - ed won't save your relationship. Ask him to explain his whereabouts or whatever else is troubling you. Don't take a simple yes or no answer.
Remind him that you've entrusted him with your heart, and how much he means to you. Tell him how proud you are of him and your relationship - how strong and honest it is. If he gets uneasy or quiet, he might be hiding something, and the guilt will eventually push him to the edge.
Tell him that you would never keep secrets from him, and mean it. Share with him a secret that you've kept from him; it might encourage him to admit any secrets he may be keeping, and will deepen your relationship.
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2007-02-18 08:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the signs are there then she should just leave, if she doesn't want to then you can not make her. This none of your business if you are not one of the parties involved. In the long run you will be the one to blame
2007-02-18 08:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of programs you can put on your computer to secretly capture all of the key strokes that are made. Then you can see what she's doing on the computer!
2007-02-18 08:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋