how to kiss?

Question

hey this is really sad but i live in a town that has tons of married men an the girls at the college outnumber the guys 3 to 1. As you can tell we dont really have alot to choose from. But here it is. I am 22 and I have never kissed a guy. How am I supposed to learn? I feel so stupid. Do i ask a guy to teach me? Is that sexy?

Answer 1

I'll teach you... oh wait, I don't know how either...

Answer 2

Hmm... well dont asks some random guy to teach you! Pick a guy that you really like or date or want to ask out or whatever. Then when the right moment comes and you guys are sitting on the couch together talking or doing something romantic looking at the stars.... tell him "ive actually never kissed someone before, can you teach me?" and if e really loves you instead of being turned off he'll think thats cute and you'll get what u want. Good luck :D

Answer 3

I'm not sure if you would really want to ask someone to teach you...but I'm sure you watch movies. Find a few romantic movies and learn from it....how she moves her mouth...how he moves his and so on. Most importantly when it comes to kissing you have to be really responsive to the other person....be receptive to their body language...or mouth and tongue (you get the point)

My husband, personally, loves this lil thing I do....I start by gently kissing his lower lip, nibbling a bit at the same time and eventually it turns in to full mouth contact.

I never was much in to the "french kiss" but since I met my husband I cant get enough of it. lol.

Good luck....and grab some chap stick....after all of the kissing you are going to be doing you may need it....lame joke. lol.

Answer 4

Ummm if you want a guy to "teach" you then sure.. but there's not a whole lot of learning to.. just close your eyes and let the lips touch and the rest will flow naturally!! && NOBODY likes sloppy kisses either btw.

Answer 5

My brother is you're age and has never had a kiss or a girl friend. but its weird because lots of chicks stare at him. but any whys..... i am 15 and i have never had a boy friend or a kiss but i don't think its a problem. i don't think you need to learn how to kiss i think it some how comes out . i doubt its hard.

God Bless... keep God first place.

Answer 6

well there is no real way to explain this over the internet really. The best way I would say to figure it out is go up to guys and start making out.. it might sound terrible but you will learn faster that way!

Answer 7

Those tips apply for both men and women, though I wrote them from a male's point of view:

1- There is something about the first kiss that just dictates that the two of you must be alone. It's a moment that you will both want to remember, and a crowd of people surrounding you will not enhance this particular memory.

If you and your girl are at a crowded restaurant or club, or with other people, and you get the feeling that she'd like to be alone with you, ask her if she'd like to accompany you somewhere. Take her for a walk or a drive, get into your own intimate party of two, and wait for the sparks to start flying.

2- For God's sake, don't blow your chance to kiss her because you ate ludicrous amounts of garlic at dinner and forgot to bring gum! A good way to avoid this is by thinking ahead and keeping spices and foods that tend to linger to a minimum at dinner. So, when you're ordering, hold the onions and stay away from garlic, curry, and other pungent spices, and opt for foods with lemon or mint instead.

Always keep a pack of gum or mints in your car or in your jacket pocket, and pop some in your mouth as soon as you finish your meal or glass of beer. If you even try to kiss her with horrible breath, you can be sure that that will spell the end.

3- You have to know when the moment is right. Like if the conversation stops, your eyes meet and neither of you seems to be able to look away, that is the perfect moment to kiss her. So, you should take the opportunity to do so.

If she is trying to get something out of her eye, or is talking about something that she feels really strongly about, don't kiss her and think that you are being spontaneous. She'll probably wonder what possessed you to do so at such an awkward moment. After all, bad timing is not something that you want to be remembered for.

4- Never ask a woman for her permission to kiss her. Despite what you might think, women, in general, like it when their man takes charge, especially during a passionate moment. Asking for her permission will make you seem timid and unsure; not sweet and sensitive. So, be a man and kiss her.

Of course, before you do so, you must be sure that she wants you to. Check her body language: if her body is facing, leaning toward, or touching yours, and she is smiling, biting her lip, or playing with her hair, chances are that she's interested in you. So, pick your moment and go for it, boy.

5- This moment should feel like it is moving in slow motion. There is nothing that will turn a woman off faster than a guy who moves too quickly, especially if this is the very first time you are even going to kiss her.

So relax, take a deep breath and make the moment last. Enjoy it and appreciate every second of it.

Find out if it's okay to touch .

6- While eye contact is good up until this point, make sure to close your eyes while you are kissing her. There is nothing weirder to a woman than a guy who kisses with his eyes wide open.

If she catches you with your eyes open, she may even think that you are not really enjoying the moment, and feel insecure as a result. Besides, a great kiss is much more enjoyable when you are completely immersed in it, and closing your eyes will help to block out any distractions.

7- Kissing a woman during an intense lovemaking session is different than kissing her for the first time. Your approach during that first kiss should be as though she's sleeping and you don't want to frighten her.

Your lips should touch hers softly and slowly. And you should gently awaken her sensual side; not force it out of her like an alarm clock scaring her out of bed.

8- Never shove your tongue down her throat -- she might choke. Seriously, if you do this, you will come across as an overeager adolescent who has never kissed a woman before. Keep your tongue to yourself; at least for the first kiss.

If the attraction is so strong that you both feel like you want to take that next step, you can gently tease her with your tongue, but practice restraint. Doing so will only keep her hungry for more.

9- I've heard women tell stories of guys who left them feeling like a very friendly St. Bernard had just finished greeting them. I think it's fair to assume that this is not a comparison you would enjoy. So, my last piece of advice is to avoid it by not slobbering all over her. Keep your saliva to yourself.

10- If you follow these 10 tips, you will definitely give a first kiss that he will think about all night. It might even get his mind to wander past that kiss and on to what else you can do... So, just relax and enjoy.

Answer 8

Just wait till someone you care for wants to kiss you! Tell him it's your first and you want to savor every detail! Close your eyes and make a pucker! smoooooch! Nice memory to make, so make it with someone special to you.

Answer 9

You need to pick out one and throw him down i bet u he will teach you then!!

Answer 10

kissing isn't something you learn...it just kinda happens girl!!! good luck...the right guy will come along!