Real friends. How do I figure out why I'm no one's choice to hang out with?
2007-02-18 19:34:24 · 12 answers · asked by Bart Simpson 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To So Many Questions et al, I don't feel that I'm undesirable or repulsive, but I don't know what it is about me. I've always been able to have girlfriends, but I've never had luck with friends.
2007-02-18 19:46:54 · update #1
il be ur frend('',)
2007-02-18 20:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Evaulate yourself. Maybe ask some old friends why you guys don't hang out anymore. Make a list of things you look for in a friend, then ask yourself if you have those qualities. First of all, no one wants to be friends with someone that describes themself as undersirable and repulsive. People want to be around people that are fun and confident, not those that beat themselves up.
2007-02-19 03:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i noticed you said "real friends." real friends are hard to come by nowadays. youcant just trust anyone to be your friend and be truthful. you have an honest connection with real friends. maybe the reason behind you not having any is because no one qualifies. but you need to also take a look at yourself. have you heard the same complaints about yourself from various people? if not then your not the problem, you just havent found that person or persons yet!
2007-02-19 03:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well do you ramble on about yourself. Do you try to act all big and bad? Are you the one that is annoying people. If you see that there are other people when you walk in a room that cringe when they see you, you are probably the annoying one that no one wants to be around.
2007-02-19 03:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by linsey_runnels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a very clear hearted person speak truth in front. But in today's world people like flattering plus untruthful praise to get attracted. Don't worry you will get a ream person one day so wait & watch.
2007-02-19 03:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by P S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe b/c you have low self esteem and no one wants to hang out with someone who is so negative all the time.
2007-02-19 03:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you haven't found the right type of friends because your in the wrong enviornment... try going to places you like, more than likely there will be ppl who are interested in the same things as you...
2007-02-19 03:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Livier A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love, I'm not quite clear on why you think your repulsive ? you sound as if you try to hard to fit in . until you find out who you really are . no one else can love . try being yourself and they will accept you for you.
2007-02-19 03:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by suzann c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BAD BREATHE, SWEARING, SMOKING, DRINKING AND HANGIN OUT WITH SHADY PEOPLE, GAMBLING,NON-COMMITTED, BAD TEETH, AND QUEER SMILE, TALK TOO SOFTLY OR TOO LOUDLY AND USE BAD UNEDUCATED ENGLISH OR WHATEVER. YOU DONT SMILE AND ARE GRUMPY AND DONT BATHE. YOU BLOW BUBBLE GUM ON A DATE AND SNAP IT WHILE CHEWING WITH YOUR MOUTH OPEN. THIS KEEPS YOU FROM BLENDING WITH A PROSPECTIVE MATE. YOUR HAIR MIGHT BE TOO GREASY OR LIKE A MOP. YOU MAY BE JUST PLAIN QUEER LOOKING. WITH NO MANNERS AND A STRANGE VOICE.
2007-02-19 03:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, need more info on your personality.
2007-02-19 03:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it your attitude or maybe you are choosing the wrong people for friends.....
2007-02-19 03:40:23 · answer #11 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋