I just got a Boyfriend he and I been going out, and I really have feelings for him and he has feelings for me to(that is what he told me). Then I get a Phone call from my Best Guy Friend saying that"Your boyfriend and I were at a Bar togeter,then your boyfriend got drunk and had Sex with anouther girl"! I could not believe it so then I hung up not knowing what to believe then I get a phone call from the girl she said" I just had sex with your Boyfriend and I'm way better then you"! Then she hung up,I was going to get the number but she must of blocked me before I could get it.
So I don't know weather to report this to the police,go find my boyfriend or call my best guy friend???? I need help!? Fast!
2007-02-18 23:54:38 · 21 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and plus i'm just scared to call my boyfriend because what if it is true he might of had unprotected sex with her???
2007-02-18 23:56:35 · update #1
call him! now!!!! and as him if its true and if it is, if he did have unprotected sex with a girl.. DUMP HIM! he doesnt need a lover.. he needs a B I A T C H!! and i believe your not a b i a t c h.. so Dump him! you dont deserve him, you dont deserve to feel that way. women should be loved. you deserve someonw better.. i know you love him and knowing the truth hurts but this is for you.. you just have to take that leap of faith that you can move on and find someone thats truly best for you.. dont worry theres still a chance it was just a prank but if it wasnt.. DUMP HIM! dont be so stupid to be with a guy who would throw himself away because he's drunk. please.. think of yourself. i know how it feels and it feels really awful and you could probably do horribly stuff but please..THINK! you're much more better than that girl.. coz she's a s l u t t and you're not.. you rank higher so dont go down to her level.. you should prove to them that you know BETTER!
2007-02-19 00:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a bit fishy. Why would the girl have your number? Perhaps your best guy friend really has feelings for you so he set it up to tell you that and then have another acquaintance call and tell you that she was 'the girl'. Call your boyfriend and ask what he is up to, in a casual manner and do it fast. The more time he has, the longer he has to think up lies (if it is true) and you should be able to catch him in a lie easier. If it is the truth, get rid of him straight away. If you find it to be a lie then you need to have a serious talk with your friend.
This is NOT a police matter.
2007-02-19 00:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im concerned about YOU, not your boyfriend. You just found out that he just had sex with another girl, and YOU said you really have feelings for him.
You, sweetheart, are the one with the problem here. You are involved with a scumbag and you cant even see it. He hangs around with people who will allow him to sleep with other women instead of protecting him. You are seeing a guy who gets drunk, and does things to himself with no regard for you. You are seeing a guy who GAVE the girl he slept with YOUR PHONE NUMBER. And yet, you say you still have feelings for him. Are you going to give him a pass just because he was drunk? Are you going to let him blame the alcohol?
You need to get help immediately. You need to talk to people who can make you understand that your standards for men are so incredibly low that you are bound for serious problems in life. Please get help right away.
And this is a no-brainer: dump the bastard and reclaim at least a little bit of dignity. Show some class and send him packing. Who knows, he may be a father very soon. If he was drunk, he didnt bother using a condom. Do you want to be involved with a guy who now has obligations to another woman? Get some class!
2007-02-19 00:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did this girl get your number and how did she know you were his girl friend.? Could this not be true and she is just being mean to you.
I dont think her calling you once can have you call the police.
I know you have a best guy friend but how could he and your boyfriend go out and he sort of let him go off with another girl when he knows you are two dating.? I know your boyfiend is a big boy and may not beable to be stoped when doing something but still.
2007-02-19 00:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your guy friend up and see what else he may say . Is your boyfriend with this girl right now ? I would at least call him and see whats up . She had to of gotten the # from him so obviously he don't care .Right now he isn't feeling you at this time . Girl move on you don't want to take a risk that he brings you a std back or even aids . GOOD LUCK !!!! I'll pray for you !
2007-02-19 00:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep this boyfriend in your life after this, you have to be the most dumb woman on the planet. You need to dump that cheating punk right now. Go get tested for STD's, and above all else being drunk is no excuse to use for cheating on a girlfriend, or wife, or husband period. It's a very lame excuse.
2007-02-19 00:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either nurture the drama and get caught in a web of deceit that you can continue to strive off of.Or,you could tell them all to take e flying f*** and you aren't going to play.You could have retaliatory sex with one of his friends or you could just grin and bear it.Either way,you only live once.So choose wisely and rememebr that you are the onlt one that can make those choices.Blame noone.
2007-02-19 00:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go c this numbnuts u still call bf, and go tell him that it is over, u know what he did, he hurt u, and ask him why did he give your number to some silly slag?
then ask your best friend (the guy) why didnt he stop your (hopefully by now) ex-bf from cheating on u, and how did he find out anyway?
and then my dear go get tested for std's!
good luck and god bless, keep us posted as to how his reactions were when u dumped him!!!!
it sounds bad hun, but not as bad as screwing around
2007-02-19 00:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by livinia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I'm pretty sure, that the police don't care and would rather not know about your love life and it's problems. I'm also sure that your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore. I also think that's pretty awesome that the girl called you. Hahahaha, move on with your life otherwise you'll just be providing them with more entertainment.
2007-02-18 23:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call your boyfriend, get his side of the story.
Depending on how you feel about him or if this is a trend, you probably need to break up with him.
If he did that, he clearly doesnt have the same level of feelings for you as you do for him.
2007-02-18 23:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by stellabella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋