I caught my husband rec. porn on our dvr?
and it hurt me so bad. We just got married in November (I'm 20 he's 21) I confronted him about it upset and he said that if he knew it bothered me he would have never done it. Now I know what your thinking she must be fat and cant fill his needs well I'm not! my husband tells me how good I am all the time and I weigh 130 lbs and I'm 5 foot 3. Do I have the right to be upset?
2007-02-18 23:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by moodymouse54 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah, you have a right to be upset, BUT, also remember that when you get upset you must cool off before trying to solve a problem. Relax a little, take a minute and then talk about it as an adult.
Marriage is all about being able to work through problems.
Explain why you are upset in an adult fashion, then ask what you can do to help overcome this slight difficulty. Make sure he knows what you expect from him also. Remember NO NAME CALLING OR BLAMING. Say, It made me feel -----------.
2007-02-19 01:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do,, first you still new in the married,an,by him looking at porn,i under stand how that make you feel,,,,but i proud you an him talk it out, that the first step, in a marriage, talking,
2007-02-19 09:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋