we were together fo 6 years i was about to ask her to marry me on new years day. I caught her out xmas day
2007-02-18 23:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by GEORGE N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope dump her once a cheater always a cheater. Better you found out now then later when u two were married
2007-02-18 23:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows this person better than you, sometimes once a cheater always a cheater. If you didnt catch her would you have found out probably not and how do you know it was for 2 months probably because thats what she told you after she was caught. Can you trust her if you take her back or will it be in the back of your mind that she is cheating when she is not or maybe she will be. Can you live with that arguement everyday and night? If you can answer those questions truthfully and honestly to yourself you will know if you want to take her back or not!
2007-02-19 00:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by ttsdschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck No, she'd be out cheating again in no time at all, thinking she had you wrapped around her little finger. If she was out with someone else on xmas day when she should have been with you it just goes to show you what a lowlife woman she really truly is.
You would be a fool to continue this relationship with this cheater and it is time to move on and find someone more deserving of a person like yourself.
2007-02-18 23:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She is trying to get you to break up with her. After 6 years, she's still not ready to marry you, and probably knew you were getting ready to ask her. She's not the one, good luck to you, she's out there.
2007-02-18 23:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by adriannamarie19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did that before you two got married, then there's no telling whether she would do it again after marriage. It's a tough decision to make.
2007-02-19 00:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for you. this must hurt like hell.
if you are considering having her back after all of this is bc you still love her, no?
but, you must be heart broken and hurt, i cannot imagine how this could work out for both of you, specially you. are you able to forgive AND FORGET this episode? well, if you are, and if you think you can trust her again, go for it. i dont think i could forget the betrayal, i think it would be always sitting on the back of my mind.
respect yourself.
2007-02-18 23:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by dear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it really depends on what you truly feel, if you still love her no matter what, then accept her no ifs and buts...
provided that she is willing to change whatever it is needed and really accepts her mistakes...But if she's not willing to do so, ditch her,find another one who would really love you and be true to you...
2007-02-18 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by hbalen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. kick her out of ur life.
2007-02-18 23:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there no more women out there?!
2007-02-18 23:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by Xiomy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋