My good friend of mine died about 2 years ago. Since then I have become really good friends with his wife. She has not started dating again at all, she has said she is not ready. But I think I am in love with her and I don't kow if I should tell her or not?
2007-02-18 23:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by lawguyalek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love her then tell her,it's the only way for you to know what she feels for you...and do it with proper timing...because maybe she is still grieving and telling her might create another emotional problem...she's still fragile so be careful...just tell her what you feel...it will set you free...it will somehow ease the burden
2007-02-18 23:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by hbalen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready to date and you're wondering whether she'll be ready to hear a suprise love confession? Telling her that you love her will be an ultimately selfish act done only out of your own need as opposed to being aware of her needs. And she needs more time. When she starts to feel ready about dating or getting out there again, maybe you can ask her out or if you honestly feel like she's ready then you can spend more and more time with her and hopefully it will happen organically.
2007-02-18 23:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years is a long time,but what about u,r u married,if not then start by showing her how much u care 4 her,not caring as a frend to frend but as a lover would care,tell her often how much u miss her,if she falls 4 u,then u will see it cuz if u go straight u & tell her u in love with her.either u will lose the frendship or..............
2007-02-18 23:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she given you any indication that she feels the same way? If so, then you should tell her how you feel.
2007-02-18 23:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. first tell me r u married or bachelor?
2007-02-18 23:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woo well if you love her enough to desire your dead mates wife then i think you should tell her. maybe dumb it down abit thou.
2007-02-18 23:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.....anjela is right !! i have d same opinion
2007-02-18 23:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her soon.....
2007-02-18 23:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋