I want to have sex with my partner but we do it once or twice a week. Mostly he doesn't seem he has the interest. In what way can I show him my interest to do sex with him. Specially womens please help me.
2007-02-18 23:41:43 · 17 answers · asked by PITTY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When it's NOT time to go to bed, discuss this matter with him. Tell him exactly what's on your mind, and don't leave anything out of that conversation.
Tell him that your sexual drive may be higher than his, and you wanted to discuss ways that you two could get on the same page.
More than likely he is under stress from some other source. (work, colleagues, management, etc). Ask him how he could help you settle the problem you seem to be having.
2007-02-18 23:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u serious, my relationship is the other way around i still can't get my man to leave me alone after 7 yrs. go and buy some sexy lingere or something make it so he won't have a choice but to be interested, if nothing works than maybe ask him if he's getting it from somewhere else because I've never heard of a man not being interested unless there's something wrong, for yr sake i hope it's just a phase or something , good luck.
2007-02-19 07:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by mandiej81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress up fire his imagination.
I read where the male produces more testosterone when he is away from his partner.
The animal instinct to dominate is aroused when his subconscious knows his partner is out in the world alone.
Drop a few little unanswered questions for him to take to work.
ie... do you like this gstring .....
2007-02-19 08:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Celia T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on your sexiest undies and convince him to let you tie him to the bed. Tease him without mercy, bring him close and then stop, then start all over again. Make him beg for that sex you are so desperate for.
2007-02-19 08:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by tiemetight814 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are lots of signal you can share with your husband
try the romantic night scene cook his favorite meal
placed a single candle to lit your dining room and wear your sexiest dress to catch his attention.or throw a romantic movie for the night give him some spirit or vodca to drink and go close with him he might get the impression
try to throw a xxx movies that might excite him or give him some playboy magazine to start with
if all this signal doesnt work i think you have to talk to him and
tell him your concern
goodluck
2007-02-19 08:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must renew you self, are you that attractive like before you two meet? Is something wrong with my attitude? Go shop some erotic perfumes and make some oyster dinners, or watch porno's together. its the best thing I can think of , I hope it help
2007-02-19 07:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kyo_kusanagi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what you want. He might be under some stress that is giving him a low libido (sex drive) it happens as it is happening to my spouse right now. I would take it everynight but not my spouse
2007-02-19 07:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Confussedhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something sexy like a lingerie thing and I'm sure he can't resist you then.
Also you can take some sexy pictures of yourself and send him to his email and tell him to check his mail cuz you sent him something important...I bet he won't be able to work after that ... lol
Good luck
2007-02-19 07:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on some porn. Buy some sexy undies. Push him down, tear off his clothes and get some! If that doesn't work seek counseling.
2007-02-19 07:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have sex with someome else and let him know about it. He'll get the message.
2007-02-19 08:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋