On the day of my engagement, i and my fiancee sat whole night alone. we talked whole night and on that day he insisted me for the kiss. i gave him kiss on his cheeks but later he wanted lip kiss and for that i was not ready. As i felt little bit awkward. i had never kissed before. So please tell me what should i do to remove my shyness. He does not wanted to force me. Later i gave him a lip kiss but it was like just to touch the lips nothing else. it was just for a sec. if we would have a long kiss than is there any problem i mean is there any chance of pregnancy.He tells me that now next time when we will meet i should be free to talk freely and not to worry about anything. i felt bad as i was not able to support him. i told him i need a time. The reason he insisted was as we are staying far and we meet only near about 2 months and we have met only twice till today. and this coming May, we are getting married. so is it ok to have physical relationship before marriage. Help me out.
2007-02-19 23:36:47 · 10 answers · asked by blooming_ruby11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
oh, it's okay to kiss before you get married. In fact, it's required. You need to kiss him for a long time, and after that, kiss him again. You'll get used to it after a while. And you won't get pregnant from kissing. You have a very patient fiance, and are lucky he is willing to take things slow. But, it's really not that bad to kiss. In fact, it's alot of fun! It's a way of showing you fiance that you love him.
2007-02-23 09:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to answer your question coming from a different culture, but I would say that you should not go further until you're married. It may be that he has more experience in these matters. When the time comes and you want to kiss him, take it slow, explore it and enjoy it. He should be gentle and caring and not push too fast.
2007-02-19 23:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with, kissing has never caused pregnancy. If you feel there should be some boundaries between the two of you before you get married then its ok. Infact its good to be cautious. Also be honest with him about your fears. Congratulations on your engagement.
2007-02-20 00:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally dont think its wrong to hold hands and kiss each other. But we all have our own Convictions. Do what you feel is comfortable and your fiancee will go along with it.
2007-02-19 23:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as u r talking abt pregancy so plz go and take some lesson from ur elder or watch some useful video than u get abt pregancy .In givin a kiss i think if u r comfortable with him than go ahead
2007-02-19 23:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wer r u frm? r u indian? coz i have indian colleagues who kept asking other people if they have love or arrange marriage. & i didnt know that sperm comes wid saliva. im sure u r mature enough 2 understand everything...that's why ur getting married wid a guy...is he a stranger? coz u said that u juz met twice.
2007-02-20 01:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should feel free with ur fiancée and this engagement period should be helping U knowing each other better. If U still not feel at easy being with her please seek counceling, they are people who can help in that matter.
2007-02-20 00:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't get pregnant by kissing!
if you asked this question... maybe you shouldn't even consider kissing, let alone marriage
2007-02-19 23:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well your going to marry the guy after all...so its alright to so sexual things with him. but if your having second thoughts...than dont do anything of that nature with him.
2007-02-20 04:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kissing causes pregnancy, avoid at all costs. Do it doggy style, cannot get pregnant
2007-02-19 23:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋