who is going to want me.?

Question

i have two grandchildren living with me and my son 14 and i live in a council house, i cant, work at present as my grandaugher has been playing up, who is going to want me and i being negative
some women unemployed who live in council houses get men after them, nice ones as well, am i negative about myself. i carn,t cope with rejection very well

Answer 1

u have to eventually trust someone in life. we do have to not fear rejection, if we get rejected we just pick ourselves up and forget it, as rejection should not define our self worth, rejection is just from another person, and doesn't have anything to do with us really.

Answer 2

Hello ! denny.
You sound like you are rejecting yourself.
Unfortunately there are men out there who take advantage of women who are vulnerable.
Why is it so important to get a man?
Happiness is God given it does not come from another person.
You have a 14 year old son who is at a stage in life where he needs all the support from you along with your two beautiful grandchildren.
Why not get a happy family going with the loved ones you have..
Make some wonderful memories for them and yourself so they can look back when older and know that you loved them and they were special to you.
Do some fun things with them like hop on a train one Sunday and buy an all day ticket to wherever or a bus if there is no train near by..
Tell the kids" when you see a place you would like to have a look at lets get off ".
When you have all seen what you want to see get on the next train and off you all go again.
Kids love this kind of adventure it doesn't cost a lot take drinks from home and some sandwiches and go ,you will love it to.
Make cakes with them .
Get some plants and have them help you plant them they get so much enjoyment in watering them and seeing the new leaves grow along with the flowers.
A walk around the neighbourhood looking at peoples gardens will give you some ideas and people are only to willing to part with some cuttings and advice on what to do if your not sure another nice pass time.
Get a bird bath to put in your garden hang a little glass ornament on a tree near the bird bath and the birds will come for the water it is relaxing and rewarding sitting in the garden watching the birds and listening to them sing.
Encourage them in their school work and tell them education is most important it will pave the way for a brighter future.
Reading plenty of books at the local library another wonderful pass time if you have the right book and it costs nothing joining the local library.
When the children have finished their schooling and out in the work force new doors will open for you.
Take care denny!

Answer 3

Someone will always want you regardless of your circumstances, you show a caring nature by taking on family commitments like this. All this will pass eventually so keep your chin up, it might just not be the right time for you. The person of your dreams may come along at even the worst time so keep your eyes and your heart open =)

Answer 4

You don't need to be thinking about a man right now; you have enough on your mind. You need to concentrate on the children in your care.
You sound depressed; can you get help with that? Maybe you need some medication. Try to see a doctor about it.
Your granddaughter sounds like she needs some serious help. Be sure to talk to the school district about your problems getting the child to mind, perhaps they can help you.
I wish you the best.

Answer 5

You are a grand mother and instead of concetrationg on bringing up your family well and enjoying it and if a man comes along you see if he is the right type and enjoy his friendship you are just thinking of men like you are a teenager .Please there are better thing which matter most in life than men.

Answer 6

You need to have faith to yourself.You are SPECIAL!!!!!!!!And you have to ealise that if you want to achieve happiness....

Answer 7

there is someone for everyone.