Ok, here goes. my girlfriend and i have been going out now for about 3 months, and i know she wants to kiss me, and i really want to kiss her. now, i need like on how to move in and where to kiss and also what kind of kiss to give. i know she i has kissed before, but i haven't.
If it helps,we both take karate and usually hug after class.
i was thinking about kissing her then, probably on the forehead, watching her reaction, and then taking things from there. if any think this is a good idea just say so in you suggestions, or just say so
2007-02-20 23:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
adding something else here, we are both 14, our parents are WAY to protective, my mom hates that I'm even seeing anyone. also, I'm very shy which really sucks. so, if we were even to go on some sort of date, our parents would be there watching the entire time. after karate is the best, because our parents wait outside, so it's about as alone as we get. ( as in maybe on person walk by, TOPS) because as soon as we step out the door, one of our parents is immediately watching.
2007-02-21 00:20:39 · update #1
Never kiss a girl on the forehead as a first kiss. It is like saying 'I think of you as a little sister'. Don't do it in front of a crowd either, she may be embarassed by an audience and react in a way that she wouldn't otherwise. Do you walk home together or something? Hold her hand on the walk and come to a stop and face her, say 'I' have wanted to kiss you for a while now, would that be okay with you?' If she doesn't say anything or nods, lean in and give her a slow kiss on the lips, no tongue, just a soft slow kiss.
2007-02-21 00:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one should laugh at you because you haven't kissed a girl yet, it'll happen! First, you should go for it when there is an awkward silence, I mean after you've been on the date for a while (or hanging out for a few hours), but if there's silence then there's opportunity to fill it with a kiss. Second, I don't know what she'll expect, I would say probably a french kiss. From what I remember being that age (I'm 25). A few light kisses and then a french kiss. Third, you should kiss her for a few seconds, unless it feels right to do it longer. You'll feel her pull away if she's not into it. Avoid bad breath, slobber, and sticking your tongue too far into her mouth, or not enough, half your tongue is a good amount. Ha that was fun to answer! Sorry if it's tmi.
2016-03-15 22:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel special and do it on a date or something, not after karate.
I'll be nice and graphic for you.
Start off by giving small kisses, closed mouth. Keep your lips soft though, not tight (does that make sense?)
The best way you can 'segue' in to a first time french kiss is first small kisses and then open your mouth some so that you're somewhat 'catching' her bottom or top lip in yours. Make sure your head is slightly tilted!
With more of these your mouths will tend to open up a bit and you can gently just sort of brush your tongue against her lips at first and she if she mimmicks.
Really, you need to go slow the first time so you can pick up on her rhythm and carefuly plan your next move. (After the first time, it will be much more natural)
Then at that point, your tongues can touch so massage her tongue with yours.
Those are the basics.
Some killer moves are (at least I like them) to draw a soft line between her teeth and lips with your tongue, to gently (very gently) suck on her bottom lip, to trace her lips with your tongue, to such gently on her tongue and more. Also, mix it up a bit by kissing her occasionally on the neck or around her ears.
Don't neglect your hands. Most girls love it when you run your hands through her hair.
Hope that sort of helps!
2007-02-21 00:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss on the forehead after karate would be sweet it will show her youre interested and yet not be enough to freak her out also at 14 with protective parents thats probably about all youll be able to do ive been there dont worry though after you have been together for awhile and have had her around your house with your parents there they will warm up to her and start to ease up, in the mean time take it slow and dont do anything to loose your parents trust.
2007-02-21 00:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a good idea. :) You're apparenty pretty shy, aren't you? That could be a good approach, just feeling your way. But i think anyone can tell the best moment with instinct. :) Try sitting on a bench for a while or something and move your lips slowly close to hers. She'll meet you halfway if she wants to. And if you're bold enough you can just do it, kiss her whenever you think the time is right. I'm positive she'll love it. :) She'll love you. Good luck. :)
PS. I wouldn't stick my tongue down her throat on the first time if i were you.
2007-02-21 00:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! dont kiss her after class, every body will see, and if its bad, every one will know!
Give her the hug, but then walk out with her and then give her the kiss. Cheek is a lot better. Forehead is kinda silly.
2007-02-21 00:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go for the hug, put your arms around her and just lock lips. It's not that hard really. You will probably suck at it, at first but you will get better with practice. Don't worry about it.
2007-02-21 00:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that was how my ex and I was.....But then just when holding her in your arms look deep into her eyes, lean it a bit and see if she meets you half way, and if not, then give a little peck on the lips, and see how she reacts......Though her reaction will most likely be good......Lol.....
2007-02-21 00:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by SkIttLeTTe23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she kiss you let her take lead and you follow its easy
2007-02-21 00:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay not on the forehead soo lame no offence shell be lke wtf if u do start out with just a peck on the cheek then next class maybe ask her first b4 u do anthing or just go in first look into her eyes and say i love you. then just lean in and plant one lol good luck
2007-02-25 12:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by a|||son,. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋