2007-02-20 23:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by rob l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no matter what anyone says... you can't tell if someone loves you with just words, not even a kiss as in the song...lol. How you can tell if someone truly loves you is with actions. How do they treat you ? How do they look at you? How do they talk to you? I know my husband loves me because when he looks at me, I see it in his eyes. I catch him sometimes just watching me when he thinks I'm not looking. He takes care of me when I'm sick. He has spoiled me rotten to the point, that no matter what time of day, if I want something, he'll go out and get it. He talks to me all the time, and he listens to me talk. We are the best of friends. He doesn't have to buy me expensive gifts. All the little things he does, lets me know every day how much he loves me.
2007-02-21 00:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Michele A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never ever know if someone loves you or not, alot of it i think, is in what they do and when they say the love you. if you know this person really well then all you have to do is look them straight in the eyes when they say it to you, as the eyes are the windows of the soul they will tell you everything. Going on my own experience, if you think the person saying I love you doesnt mean it, its likely that they dont, trust your instincts they are usually right!
2007-02-21 08:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to trust the person to believe them. But it is also about their actions and how they are around you. If they are very sweet and affectionate and seem to want to be with you alot or talk to you alot then more than likely they do feel as they claim. Time is another factor. If they really love you time will tell and you two will be together for a long time if not possibly forever if it is real love form both sides. Good luck!
2007-02-21 08:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. If he/she is showing you that they care and going out the way for you then they love you. On the other hand, if they say they love you, but once something goes wrong they leave you high and dry then they don't love you.
2007-02-21 08:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would concider being together for over a year and you can gaze into eachothers eyes and get that feeling then I would say that they truly love you.
2007-02-21 08:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From their actions, which speak louder than words. I could walk up to anyone on the street and tell them I love them, but would I be able to 'act' it? Nope.
2007-02-21 08:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really tell. It just that if you like that someone, then you might give him/her a chance to prove it. If you're not, then stay away.
2007-02-21 08:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't stop saying it. and they show you. i know my husband overwhelms me with his love and we have been married a long time. and it took a while for me to believe someone loved me so much. but he is wonderful in showing it. that is true love.
2007-02-21 08:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will telll, you will know. they want to be around you and that but then see some people say it and don,t mean it but a true person will not alter.
2007-02-21 08:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love them back, u will trust them when they say this.
And also wen he /she tell this, look into the person's eyes!!
2007-02-21 08:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋