what do i do if my bf cries to me and wants me back?

Question

i broke up with my bf earlier today cos he just couldn't bring himself to tell me how he felt about me. I was always telling him how much i cared about him and hated things being so one-sided (i needed to feel secure and loved in the relationship). i told him over a week ago that if he couldn't find a way to express himself i was walking away from us. anyhow, nothing changed and so i did. today on the phone he was telling me how upset he was and asked if i'd come see him tomorrow night, i felt sorry for him and so i said yes. i'm just worried that he's going to start crying and tell me all the things i wanted to hear - but i really think its too late now, he had so many chances and only did something about it when i left him. how do i stand strong and stick to my decision if he starts crying and saying all the sweet things i've been dying to hear...?

Answer 1

you must stay strong. he didnt tell you those things when you were in love and if tells you now its through fear and guilt. does that sound like a stable relationship? no. it means you crying more because you still think he meant it. then he would break you heart even more by leaving you. that should give you something to think about.