This happens to me all the time, all over the place. Is there a way that I can prevent this from happening?
2007-02-18 02:04:56 · 16 answers · asked by gone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this, but it depends on what you look like. I am not asking if you look attractive or not. I am asking if you look scary or not. Please show us a picture.
2007-02-18 02:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by HeartOfGlass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Do you smile at them? Are you big and hairey? Do you look kind and gentle? Or mean and nasty? Something about your appearance is putting them off and scaring them. Look at yourself in the mirror. If you were a girl would you want to cuddle up to you? Check your attitude and body language, is it inviting? or intimidating? If your first impression is negetive, then it will be hard for you to get anyone to get close enough to get to know the real you. Check yourself. make a few adjustments and get back out there. You will have to beat them off with a stick lol
2007-02-18 10:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have, literally, 20 seconds to make a first impression. If you try smiling politely, they take it as, he's going to come over here and try to rip my clothes off. If you just stare, they're going to think they are going to come over here and try to rip my clothes off. If you just glance at them, they're going to... well you get the picture. Just don't look! You are looking at the smart ones... if they are always on the alert, they have a better chance of keeping themselves out of harm's way. I know it's weird, but we women like it better when we dish out the attention on the streets. In the places with a lot of people and bright(er) lights, let 'em have that charming smile of yours. They might just return it!
2007-02-18 10:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by mtrxgrl@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease up and relax and put your body language in check because you are possibly throwing some strong vibes that say I am aggressive and I want you, also looking angry will cause women to run the other way too
so smile and say hi
2007-02-18 11:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the other side ,, it seems that beggars Adore me ,, i attractive to the beggar in every city i visit , So weired ,, Also Childern seem to Forget about the Age diffrence between me & them and ask me to play with them ,,, How Do you Explain that ?
2007-02-18 10:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by MAZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your facial expressions. Try to smile more. A friendly smile. Not a creepy one.
2007-02-18 10:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by BritneySpears_1981 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like how women perceive you then make a change. Good luck.
2007-02-18 10:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
observe ur behaviour, may be u really act like one. maybe ur looks r like of a rapist's, ur behaviour ,ur words to them.
good luck
2007-02-18 10:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your reputation preceeds you. Take a good look at yourself.
2007-02-18 10:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you dont stare at the women and maybe your being a bit paraniod. i know how you feel
2007-02-18 10:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by claz b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋