Over the past month I noticed she didn't repsond to any of my messages sent to her on this online dating site. After realizing she might not be interested in me, I left a message with her on valentines day to say happy valentines and that i didn't get a message from her, wishing that i had a chance to chat with her, and that this would be the last message. I made this decision because i dont want to make her feel that i'm pestering her, there's no point, especially when this person isn't interested.
Two days after valentines day she replied me with her first message ever saying the below: "aww...that's so sweet. will you be my valentine? this year on valentine's day i just stayed at home and watched tv...hopefully in the near future i'll be watching tv with someone beside me :)
What does this message mean to you?
Thanks a bunch.
2007-02-18 01:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by rocher765 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
very very general message but it is aimed at keeping you on the strings end.........i'd forget about her...besides, if there was nothing but tv on v-day, then why didn't she call you?
2007-02-18 01:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by cheyguy2308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she say oh that is so sweet you asked me to be your valentine or did she say to you will you be my valentine.
If she asked you to be her valentine then she sounds like she wants you to make another move.
If you asked her to be your valentine then she really didn't answer.
Send another e mail and be right to the point as to whether she is interested in going farther with you or not.
2007-02-18 09:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That she wants to keep you on the line as a "back up" plan to boost her ego when she is rejected (such as, as she didn't have a boyfriend this Valentine's Day).
I wouldn't respond back to her at all.
2007-02-18 09:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there are to sides to her text. she could have been purposly late in answering to show that she didnt care or there could have been a problem with her phone;it could have been out of battery of out of credit. just ask her im sure she will tell you what she meant by the text!!! and its delay. i mean at least she answered that shows that she cares some. online dating is hard dont jump to conclusions
2007-02-18 09:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by binky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmhhhh: I think it means she had valentines plans already and went through with it, but didn't want to spoil it with you, just in case the "valentine" doesn't work out.....
2007-02-18 09:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by CC Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be just a nicety but why not reply back and see what happens
2007-02-18 10:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just write her that you want to meet this weekend for coffee or lunch and if she cant move on
2007-02-18 10:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it as I like your comments but no further getting to know you personally, I would give up on her. sorry.
2007-02-18 10:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means she must have taken the short bus to skool
2007-02-18 09:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by EFF U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested. Move on.
2007-02-18 09:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋